How to move things on?

[Henri]

Hello.

 

There's this girl I know at college, I don't know her that well and wouldn't consider her a friend, but we say hello when we see each other etc. She's in my seminar groups, and I often sit next to her. I'm immensely attracted to her and I want to date her, but I'm not sure how I can comfortably move something on from an acquaintance to a girlfriend.

[Cognitive_Canine]

okay, first, slow down. You barely know her. Girlfriend? I'd just go for a date, man. Don't get ahead of yourself.

 

Make conversation with her after class in the hall and joke about the teacher. Try and have a conversation as you walk (even if that isn;t the direction you need to go). Before you part, make sure you part on a high note. Two days later, do the same things, only ask her to lunch.

[lailabaila]

please Help me!! how can I overcome my shyness?? I am so shy when it comes to men!!! Don't have the courage to talk to them tormally,to be myself