ObliqueApproach Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Here's a hypothetical situation. Let's say I approach a girl in a bar or club where there are many other girls present, and she rejects me outright. Would you say that it negatively affects my chances to find another girl that night, because everyone saw me getting turned down? As you know, when a girl sees other girls flocking to a popular guy, she too becomes interested and maybe even competitive, so would it be logical to presume the opposite is also true, i.e., even if a girl would have been interested in me, she loses her interest after seeing my being rejected? Can you back me up on this?
paranoiac543 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Hopefully the girls who saw you get rejected aren't the type that ''go with the flow'' ..hope that makes sense. i mean, blah i don't know what i mean.. it just really depends on the girl.. if one girl didn't like you, someone else probably will
columbine Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Girls that flock around guys who are getting attention are idiots, and I really don't feel they make up the general female population! If anyone is watching blokes get turned down and allowing it to form their judgment then they are clearly incapable of individual thought and if i were you, i wouldn't bother with them. Personally, I don't pay much attention to watch people coming onto each other. It's a little like attending a meat market if that's all you do when you go out. Approach people who look like they're having too much fun to care about that kind of thing.
deleted-account Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 I think it does affect them. They know that they are your 2nd choice at best, and you're just looking for someone to hook up with if you go hitting on everyone.
Scorpion Fury Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 I think it does affect them. They know that they are your 2nd choice at best, and you're just looking for someone to hook up with if you go hitting on everyone. Yep. I would not give a guy the time of day if I saw him hit on some girl, get rejected, and then come try to hit on me, like he's settling for me because the other girl didn't like him or something, and also because he would come accross to me as one of those lame bar fly guys that will just hit on anyone and just wants a piece of ass at the end of the night, not really caring who it is
D_Lish Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 Yes, I would reject a guy who had tried to hit on a friend/or another person before me and I'd witnessed the rejection. I would figure that if he liked me, it would have been me he'd chose to hit on, not her... I've seen this kinda thing happen a lot on evenings out and I used to laugh at guys who have been all over one woman, she's turned him down and then you immediatley see him make a beeline for someone else. He's obviously just desperate for anyone...so long as he has a woman by the end of the night.
ghost69 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 absolutely not. if they ask, say it just someone you met. never was something that had an adverse fact. or i tell the new girl i'm hitting on that she was a total ____. they usually like that.
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