imseguro Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 so i was in high school in a class with this one guy who's one year older than me who has the physical features of a god,(6'4" athletic, perfect face, beautiful eyes, nice hair and tan. so i never really looked at him before that school year started and i was pretty sure he was straight (played football, baseball, basketball) very jocky guy. i assumed he was very extroverted like most jocks i've met, (talking allot, making jokes, flirting with girls) but in the class we were in he was very quiet, and kept to himself. not at all like i would have expected. he was allso well kept, always with his hair done, shaved nice clothers, like men look when they want to attract girls but im pretty sure he didnt have a girlfriend the whole year. so since this is the way i was too (i'd say im somewhat decent looking) i suspected he might be gay. well in the first half of the year i met my very best friend in that class so i talked mostly with her (she doesnt know im in the closet but i think she might be the first person i come out to). so,, during the second quarter i started noticing him more, i was seated on a table with my back to the wall and he was seated on the table in front of mine with his back facing me and my friend. i would notice him looking at our table from the corner of my eye (i never looked back at him,,"why does he always look behind him, there's nothing special back here") but he would do this at least once a day, we sometimes touched hands by accident when the class moved around, (its funny it was only with him and i wasnt doing it on purpose) well one time I actually turned and looked at him when he was staring my way and he just looked away, startled. he didnt look my way for some days after that. well i checked his myspace and he didnt put his orientation on it, and it was that way every other time i checked. some people call him gay on myspace, i dont know maybe they're just joking, he has allot of gal friends and appears to be a crazy party boy in his pictures (he doesnt hug or kiss girls on his pictures), though that's not what he seemed like in class. i pass by him every now and then in school but i act like we're strangers. i've had crushes on other guys before but this guy has really sticked in my mind. i kinda feel like a stoker : (. i dont know if he even knows who i am or if he fells the same way about me or what, i have gotten over him for some time but it just keeps coming back!.... uhhhh do u guys think there might have been something there? I know i should have at least befriended him, i regret not doing it.
imseguro Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 oh, sorry if this thread seems to be all over the place, i just think too much
ButterflyWrists Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 the only way you will find out, is to ask. but by the sounds of it, he is one of the more popular students, so he will likely deny it. try and become his friend, and see how things progress
ProtestTheHero Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 This is easy to find out without asking him directly and then having him be embarrassed or offended. Find a pretty girl in your class and ask him what he thinks of her. Then, in typical guy fashion, ask him if he'd hit it. If he's a jock, he'll answer that question without being offended 99% of the time. EDIT: I did not realize you're no longer in that class with him, so obviously my idea will not work. Is there anyway you can check his myspace/fb or maybe talk to a mutual friend? I just think it'd be really awkward to ask someone directly if they're gay when you don't know. I can't imagine how he'd take it if he wasn't.
lukeb Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 So I take it you are not in highschool anymore, is there a way to get in touch with him? Now that you are not in what many would consider a "hostile" environment, you do have an opportunity to basically ask him. You're not out yet so I guess only ask him if you feel you can trust him. There isnt much to go to to believe he is gay except wishful thinking.
imseguro Posted December 21, 2009 Author Posted December 21, 2009 I know its been a long time but maybe someone will still comment. So I check his myspace maybe once a month and he does not post his sexual preference nor any other information except for his zodiac and "single." Several people made comments about him like "whats up fag" and one commented "hope you get more action (sex, presumably with girls) over there (his new college) cuz you shure didnt over here." now this is a guy that MANY girls thought was HOT so wouldnt he be getting some all the time?
bruinsy81 Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 I know its been a long time but maybe someone will still comment. So I check his myspace maybe once a month and he does not post his sexual preference nor any other information except for his zodiac and "single." Several people made comments about him like "whats up fag" and one commented "hope you get more action (sex, presumably with girls) over there (his new college) cuz you shure didnt over here." now this is a guy that MANY girls thought was HOT so wouldnt he be getting some all the time? No.He sounds painfully shy,I don't think you should pursue it.
ceez Posted December 22, 2009 Posted December 22, 2009 if it's still possible, try to become friends and see where it goes from there. just don't get your hopes up to much, just think of him as a new friend that happens to be hot
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