sourskitless Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 Well, here's the thing..I'm not being racist, but half my class is korean, and im not. All my friends in that class all are korean. Somethimes they talked in korean amongs themsleves, but usually it was english. Now one of them is saying that i was being mean to her, but she pretends to be my friend. She got my bff in that class to be a biotch to me and to talk in korean the whole time. they say stuff about me in korean and it hurts alot cuz im pretty sure its bad.....I tried talking to the one that turned my bff against me, but she wont tell me why shes mad....and shes telling me to go away and stuff, it really hurts....please give me advice...im in tears as i write this.... greatly appreciated, sourskittles. Link to comment
lisa1126 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 Hi! How old are you? I am sorry for your situation. It IS hard when another language is spoken in your environment. You are always wondering what they are talking about, and suspecting they are talking about you... Is there a chance you can become friends with some of the Koreans in your class? That can help making you feel less isolated. You know that. ARe you having a hard time making some friends in that class? Link to comment
sourskitless Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 I am 13. And yes, I have half the class as my friend, but these 3 friends are my closest, and I know she told them on purpose do talk in korean. I have soccer practice with her at 7:00 tomorrow. Should I try and confront her then? Link to comment
dreamwarrior Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 What do you intend to say to her? Link to comment
sourskitless Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 well shes mad at me so m gonna ask her what i did and apologize for whatever it is and then i will tell her how hurt i have felt the past few days and ask her if we can start over and be friends again, because she used to be one of my closest friends, and we shouldnt stop beying friends over one fight. would that be too much to say to her and would she just brush me off, or is it worth a try? Link to comment
lisa1126 Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 I think that's a good idea, you are being honest about your hurt and feelings and apologizing and asking her to start over again. So, you must be in middle school. That's a really tough time when it comes to friendships. Kids can be brutal at that age. I am sorry for your predicament. Don't be too distraught. Link to comment
sourskitless Posted February 5, 2009 Author Share Posted February 5, 2009 thank you for your concern and advice. i will confront her as said and hope she will forgive me. thank you so much for your help. sincerely, sourskitless Link to comment
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