4th date ideas???

[jen83]

So I've been out with this guy 3 times and he's awesome. I really like him and I'm really excited that things seem to be progressing so well! He asked me out each time, we did the "normal", easy date stuff: date 1: coffee, date 2: dinner, date 3: movie. I have a weird schedule so I was really hoping we could do something tomorrow since I get out at a "normal" time finally(happens rarely) and it worked out because he asked me out tonight, or rather asked me if I wanted to do something with him sometime.

 

So I suggested tomorrow because of above reason and that I'm busy Friday. He says that works for him, but now he wants to know what I have in mind. Well, I didn't have anything in mind, I just wanted to see him tomorrow! So ideas?

 

So far I have---walk around the mall, go to a cool store nearby, maybe get something to eat. Like hang out. And that sounds lame to me, but I think it could be fun because it would be more of a casual time and less "date" like, maybe a chance to get to know each other in a different way. But he said ok. But I worry that I didn't have something cooler to suggest though I'm sure he'd be up for anything. Anyway--topic at hand--better ideas for a 4th date? We haven't so much as held hands or kissed yet...if that matters, but I would prefer it be a public place. Long story short, last relationship was torched after having sex way too soon--it never recovered and ended weirdly. I want to take things slowly this time--cause I like this guy and there's no rush--and I think it's easier to just avoid any alone, or "home" situation right now. Thoughts or does mall idea sound ok?

[Ac143]

Are you guys hanging out at night or during the day?

 

My usual dates, were movies, dinner out or at home, coffee dates, lunch dates, bars, rock climbing, walk on the beach, concerts, mini golf - this was always fun lol, museum, picnic, watching a movie at home ....thats all I got for now

 

I never had a mall date but I can see how walking around, shopping - getting something to eat etc could be fun! Remember its not what you do - its who you do it with!...that makes it fun

[addictedblue]

how about bowling?

[Keyman]

I agree that there is no reason why there has to be a specific thing to do on a date. The girl, I was recently dating, and I enjoyed the mall date. Head to a mall, wander around vaguely shopping - you can learn a lot about him/her from a mall - go get something to eat. Chat, cuddle, hold hands, chat etc, be free and easy and just enjoy the hanging out!

 

And in answer to "What did you have in mind?" "Hang out", is a great answer, "Nothing too specific."

[tin_tin]

Jen, i like your idea.

 

How about spending the day or afternoon with him. Mabye catch a train or go for a drive to a different town........go shopping, or just have a wander around. Grab a bite to eat and coffee inbetween. This personally wouldnt be my 4th idea for a date. But probably my 1st.

 

I always find spending a day with someone, i find out if i like being with them or not. Its more relaxed, and less formal. You can really find out alot about them, and vice versa. I never run out of things to say.

Plus you can have a bit of fun (ie pointing out some strange looking person in the street!)

 

Ive never been keen on movie or dinner dates first up, they can be awkward for some. Plus you cant say much in the cinema!

 

Hope this helps.