2single1 Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 ok so here is the deal.... i have been single for quite some time now and i really wanna change this i havent had much opportunity to do anything about that because i simply cant find the right girl... all the girls i know are my real good friends and have been for a while.. however last weekend i was at a friends house and i got in touch with one of my old crushes... we have kept in touch here and there through out the past couple years, i met her freshman year i am now a junior well should should be a junior but college wasnt my thing, any ways she ended up coming over the house and spending the night with me, we didnt do anything, we talked, i gave her a back rub, we talked some more. the down side to all of this talking was that it was mostly about how she just ended a bad relationship and how she is not emotionally ready for another one at this point in time, but still we cuddled and fell asleep hand in hand (i'm a sucker for the romantic stuff). basically what her problem seemed to be (or at least wat i understood from what we talked about) is that she has a hard time trusting the male gender... it seems like everytime i find an interest in a girl she has recently become single but any way the next day we were texting all day just small stuff lil flirtatious and i was happy about that but after the conversation had ended i didnt know how i could start up a new one.... i dont want to come on too strong or too quickly but i do wanna keep in touch and talk to her as much as possible... the problem is i dont know how to do that in an appropriate manner, such as i would call too much, say the wrong thing ect. we didnt talk every day before atleast not in a year or so but for some reason i keep coming back to her even after things didnt work out before.... we didnt see each other enough, and she got back with her ex (they broke up again shortly afterwards) basically the advice i am looking for is a way to let her know that she is on my mind, but not make her think that she is the only thing on my mind... another question i had was if i should ask her to be my valentine, i've never had a valentine and that day holds nothing but bad memories for me i kinda wanna change it around this year, actually have something happy to remember on valentines day, not being dumped, or dislocating a knee cap, or having surgery on my knee....a few of my previous valentines day expiriences any input you all might have would be greatly appreciated.... if u need to know something more about the situation or are confused about something i said let me know and i'll try to clearify...... just another lonely night blurred by the impact of alcohol....
JamesHarmison Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 It is a good day for all lover person for your relationship.
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