konstantine Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I was bored and I know my boyfriend's password to his facebook (he told me a while ago). So I went on it. I feel like such a creep * * * * * * * girlfriend. I HATE sneaky girlfriends and I don't want to come accross that way. My curiosity got the best of me and I looked at a message he sent some girl I didn't know. It was basically just a hi, haven't talked to you in years message. He said she should visit but no nudity, mentioned he had a girlfriend, she even knew me by name because he talked about me so much I guess. Good to confirm he is doing nothing wrong. BUT I FEEL HORRIBLE. I don't know why I did it, I was just bored. I wasn't trying to snoop around. But when it was sitting in front of me I just looked. I trust him and he probably wouldn't care since he told me his password anyway but I just feel like a scumbag because I don't wanna be that girl who snoops through her BF's stuff. Feels good to let it out. Go ahead, yell at me.
vmrhine18 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 You are human. Everyone's curiosity gets the best of them sometimes, even if they do trust their loved one. Just as long as it doesn't continue or become a habit.
bmwm3 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 How would you feel if he looked at your facebook act...
metrogirl Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Next time you are bored, perhaps read a book or pop a dvd in. Don't snoop. Glad you didn't find anything.
konstantine Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 Thank you guys. I hardly ever go on Facebook but the past couple days I have been on a quick. I need to quit that * * * * immediately. I wouldn't care if he looked at my Facebook, but I guess I might feel a little weird that he did it behind my back. Him talking to other girls means nothing though... right? I just want him to be happy with me.
metrogirl Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Thank you guys. I hardly ever go on Facebook but the past couple days I have been on a quick. I need to quit that * * * * immediately. I wouldn't care if he looked at my Facebook, but I guess I might feel a little weird that he did it behind my back. Him talking to other girls means nothing though... right? I just want him to be happy with me. If you didn't find anything that would constitute cheating, then I don't think you need to worry about anything.. You talk to members of the opposite sex don't you? and he still makes you happy right?
konstantine Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 If you didn't find anything that would constitute cheating, then I don't think you need to worry about anything.. You talk to members of the opposite sex don't you? and he still makes you happy right? Yup! You're right. Silly me. I just know I put him through some crap sometimes and he usually doesn't really talk to other girls much. But I'm just being dumb.
hockeyboy Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 why in the world did he give you his password to begin with?
Mavh25 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 If it wouldnt bother him you reckon, tell him.. ease ya conscience or never do it again.
konstantine Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 I don't know why, it just came up when we were messin around on his computer and he told me he doesn't care if I know it. I'm not going to tell him because I know how it comes off and I refuse to be seen as that girl. I'm not going to be doing that anymore. I just wanted to tell SOMEONE that I feel so stupid for doing that.
metrogirl Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I don't know why, it just came up when we were messin around on his computer and he told me he doesn't care if I know it. I'm not going to tell him because I know how it comes off and I refuse to be seen as that girl. I'm not going to be doing that anymore. I just wanted to tell SOMEONE that I feel so stupid for doing that. *smacks your wrist* Don't do it again....LOL
Casey13 Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Dont even worry about it its not like you keylogged his password without his consent and he checked out so i would just forget about the whole thing. I think you may be over thinking it a bit
konstantine Posted February 3, 2009 Author Posted February 3, 2009 Dont even worry about it its not like you keylogged his password without his consent and he checked out so i would just forget about the whole thing. I think you may be over thinking it a bit Yeah, you're probably right. I was just SHOCKED to even see the word nudity involved but at least it said there can be none! I know boys had their wild sides back in the day (honestly, he probably just flashed her or something stupid) but that doesn't mean anything for right now.
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