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Ok, well my x-bf and I are REALLY good friends! But the thing is that, I STILL LOVE HIM TO DEATH! Even though we broke up a year ago. See heres the thing, i think he likes me to because... he is ALWAYS wanting to talk to me, and all that.... but the thing is... he likes this other girl!And he tells me everything... here is the things he has done...

1: He came over to my house, and we were watching a movie and i was pratically LAYING IN HIS LAP!

2: He loves talking to me! And loves to hang out with me

3: He always wants hugs

4: He is a big flirt!

5: Askes me who i like!

6: Thinks im pretty

Heres the problem, he likes these other girls... and when i told him i liked him.. he said that he doesnt want me to like him, bc he cant like me bak! But now, since i told him i dont like him... hes acting like he likes me... But hes always talking about all these other girls...!

When we play baskettball, hes always really close when hes guarding me... However when he tells me the girls he likes he never names me! I dont know what to do... he keeps asking me who i like, and if one guy could go out with me who would it be.... I mean if he likes someone he tells them... I dont know! So what should I do?



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Hi there, lucy! It sounds like you are in a confusing situation, here. First, Id like to say that sometimes people want what they cannot have. This may apply to you both. when he thinks that you are not interested, he becomes interested in you. And since you get the feeling from him that he likes other girls, it is more of a chase for you as well. I think that this guy may not be completely over you. But I do not think he wants to act on this. Maybe he feels that you two share a better friendship than a relationship. That is always positive as well. If I were you, as much as you like this guy, you should be there for him as his friend and try not to throw yourself at him. Make him wonder if you are interested or not. You never know, something wonderful could blossom for you two within a few days to a few years. But if you stay friends, then you still havent lost anything. Good luck. Hope this helped.

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Hi there Lucy,


I agree with mermayd that you must be very confused at the moment. I am sorry that you are in this difficult situation.


I 100% agree to mermayd here. She made some very good comments and has some valid points. May be friendship would be a good idea. However, I would like to add that if you feel so hurt, because of what it is going on, you might want to find it more comfortable to break away from him. True, friendships are really good, but they are not supposed to hurt.


If you feel fine in this situation, then I don't see anything wrong with it. I would then just kick back, sit back and relax. I hope this helped you, too.


Good luck!!


~ SwingFox ~

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