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[hulk7280]

Ok.. me and my ex broke up in mid-september.. we have been in lc for most of the time..

 

I wont lie I definetly wanted to get back with her for awhile now..BUT the past few weeks i have really let go.. and dont even really think about her anymore and everything was going GREAT! I really felt like my old self.. i no longer looked at my phone to see if she contacted me because i really didnt care to be honest..

 

but then last night a friend told me about how she sees her talkin to some guy in the gym.. and saw them leave together.. and it just kinda floored me and i feel weak and helpless again..

 

I ended up textign her about it last night and she said they were just friends and thats it..

 

but i just dont feel right.. maybe its cause i know this guy is a douche or maybe its because i dont wanna hear about my ex with other men..

 

i dunno.. it just sucks i wish my friend didnt even say anything.. i mean what was point in it? we arent together, its not my damn business what she does.. but i cant stop caring!

[scorpio47]

Yeah that's a tough one. My ex is seeing someone and it's killing me too. Can't really blame your friend - I'm pretty sure he didn't mean anything malicious by it. My guess is that you don't want to hear about your ex with another guy...at least that's the case with me.

[SpaceGray]

Don't mean to be harsh but you two: Scorpio and Hulk need to get your acts together and stop caring about people who don't care about you. If you do you're just torturing yourselves.

[hulk7280]

Yeah that's a tough one. My ex is seeing someone and it's killing me too. Can't really blame your friend - I'm pretty sure he didn't mean anything malicious by it. My guess is that you don't want to hear about your ex with another guy...at least that's the case with me.

 

well i guess its the fact i know who this guys is and is a real douche bag doesnt help either..

 

but yeah i dont wanna hear about it at all.. I dont care she isnt my gf.. it has no bearing on me..

 

it just bothers me because i felt so good and was in such control of things and over not i lost that feeling!

[hulk7280]

Don't mean to be harsh but you two: Scorpio and Hulk need to get your acts together and stop caring about people who don't care about you. If you do you're just torturing yourselves.

 

its easier said then done my friend.. easier said then done!

[beauty_is_pain]

i definitely know how you feel although my situation isnt the same it seems everytime i feel good enough to move on and feel like myself again, something always brings me back to where i was...its a tough situation

[hockeyboy]

next time, don't text her about whatever guy you hear she is with, that's no good.

 

also ask your friend not to bring her up if it bothers you.

 

put this behind you and move on.

[SpaceGray]

its easier said then done my friend.. easier said then done!

 

C'mon, you called yourself hulk. Now act like one. Now in all seriousness, yes, it's hard; but it's worth it. What's not worth it is being a wuss and throw yourself at that girl. You deserve better.

[parlae]

my ex is seeing someone new as well.

and as much as it hurts to know that,

i think i'd much rather KNOW about it...instead of thinking he's single.

 

does that make sense?

[veneratio]

well i guess its the fact i know who this guys is and is a real douche bag doesnt help either..

 

but yeah i dont wanna hear about it at all.. I dont care she isnt my gf.. it has no bearing on me..

 

it just bothers me because i felt so good and was in such control of things and over not i lost that feeling!

 

Knowing the guy and knowing how he is (a-hole/douche/whatever you wanna use) makes it so much worse.

 

You'll get your strength back. Stings for awhile, but that feeling will come back. Trust me.