ladycoleman Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Ok, So my boyfriend and I have been broken up for a few weeks with NC. I have been taking time for myself to heal from it all and its been crushing me to go through the break up. Yesterday I got an email from him "updating" me on his life. He was telling me about all the fun he was having, doing things that he couldn't do before. I'm happy for him, but did he really need to email me this? Telling me he is having a grand ole time while I sit in my room trying not to cry about breaking up. I know I probably shouldn't have read the email in the first place but I was curious. Goes to show you that curiosity killed tha cat and then backed up to run over it again. Should I reply to his email? Should I be as happy as he is now? Going out and partying all care free. I just don't know. Sorry for the emotional rant. Its good to get it out there.
Maroney555 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Don't reply to it. TOTALLY UNNECESSARY! Block him...NOW!!!! Block him from Facebook, MySpace, and emails and any chat accounts he may know about. Everyone heals at their own pace. He might not be as "happy" as he states. He is probably trying to get a rise out of you and hoping you will write him back telling him how sad you are and how much you miss him. He is trying to get an ego boost when he is probably hurting inside too.
PsychGirly Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Don't respond to his email. Ignore him as much as possible. This will show him that you, too, have moved on with your life & don't have time for him.
thedude27 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Its only been a few weeks...everyone is happy (dumper wise) after a few weeks. He wants you to respond, dont.
ladycoleman Posted February 2, 2009 Author Posted February 2, 2009 Thanks you guys. I'm blocking him completely from everything now. He didn't need to be an ass about things. Thanks again
lady00 Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Ugh. This guy is a jerk. Delete, ignore. Just ugh! I'm so sorry you had to receive an email like that.
twiceinoneyear Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 God, what a jerk! To me, that's a sign of insecurity. He needs to make you feel like crap in order to make himself feel better. Who needs people like that? The next time you start thinking about all the good parts of your past relationship (its hard not to) remember that e-mail! Stay strong!
tin_tin Posted February 2, 2009 Posted February 2, 2009 Dont respond to him at all. I dont know how some dumpers have the nerve, he obviously dosnt have a heart. They always seem to want to kick you while your down.
Zeitgeist Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 I've learned that a person's character becomes most obvious AFTER a break-up. Whatever your circumstances were, you can take comfort in knowing that this is the kind of person you no longer have to be in a relationship with.
Lights Posted February 3, 2009 Posted February 3, 2009 Hun, he's probably realizing what a jerk face he really was for letting you go, and he's trying to validate it by sending you emails saying he's happy. If he was all happy and busy without you, would he have time to sit down and rub it in your face? Probably not.
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