drewciouS281 Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 see i dont dont ghost for saying my threads start out all good that i met someone new but i gurantee go back and none of them talk about how in tune and common i have with the person. I post threads on new people cause i like to let certain people on here know my updates cause they asked but the only other person i have met that i was this in tune with was my ex of 3 years. yes, she is an ex now but we lasted that long. from my experiance when something seems to good to be true, it is true. look at my other threads of the other few girls last year, none of them i said were too good to be true. i just said i liked them but it was mostly concerns i was having with them. this girl i have no concerns, no worries, and have not found any dislikes which is odd for me cause i usually find some sort of flaw in a person. i understand over time i will but usually i notice afew off bat and i dont now. Im trying not to get my expectations too high, just wanting feedback and i am taking in every bit of it. thanks!
ghost69 Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 hey, have fun man. so far i just see infatuation and a good time. doesn't mean you aren't clicking.
drewciouS281 Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 yeah i agree with ya. isnt that how most good things start off? only time can tell right!?
riley123 Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 I don't know why so many are giving you a hard time...you're excited and that's a good thing. Just enjoy the feeling...chemistry doesn't happen with everyone and clearly you guys click. Just enjoy the ride and see where things go. Don't get a head of yourself by looking too far down the road. Just take it day by day and learn as much as you can about each other. Good luck!
drewciouS281 Posted February 4, 2009 Author Posted February 4, 2009 thanks man. i really appreciate it! some of them have seen me get burned or put up with too much crap so i take it as they are just watchin my back but i swear this girl is different. i know and feel it! she is open with her feelings so im slowly startin to let my guard down for her. its only fair. she told me that she has been burned too and keeps asking if how i am if its really me and not a front. i told her of course its me why. her response was that she can see herself falling in love wit me. wow.
pumpkinmoon Posted February 4, 2009 Posted February 4, 2009 I don't think it is too good to be true just don't rush it. Try not to see too much of each other as I think that is the main reason why things that seem good fizzle out.
ghost69 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 I don't know why so many are giving you a hard time...you're excited and that's a good thing. Just enjoy the feeling...chemistry doesn't happen with everyone and clearly you guys click. Just enjoy the ride and see where things go. Don't get a head of yourself by looking too far down the road. Just take it day by day and learn as much as you can about each other. Good luck! not so much a hard time, i'm happy for the guy. it's just, well, his track record.
drewciouS281 Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 not so much a hard time, i'm happy for the guy. it's just, well, his track record. I know it seems i have a track record cause i do date alot and i choose to share my experiances with everyone cause well, for the most part im just bored at work. Here is a quick run down for those of you that dont know starting from beginning of last year to current. January - february 08 - was seeing a bartender that i really liked but i ruined it by rushing things a tad. march to july 08- was dating a girl from work that i actually thought i start to fall for but i realized i was so sick of dating random women i settled for someone that was not my type at all. big mistake. turns out she was sleeping with two other guys at work and was bi polar but i have learned to keep my options open anyway when things seem unsure so with in that time i was hooking up with other girls. this one was the one i regret completely though! July-ish - october 08 - towards the end of the above girl i started talking to and seeing a girl from new york. things were great until i found out that she was a felon from new york and was extridcted back. luckily i had another girl i was gettin some on the side casually. october to january 09- was seeing another girl from work which was going good at first but i was more attracted to her looks than her effort into a relationship. it was a rollar coaster back and forth until i finally ended it beginning of january. from october to december i was also seeing a girl while seeing this one that was awesome and great but i didnt like the fact she got so clingy and was about 5 years older than me so i cut it off to persue the one from work. january to current - i was casually talking to the girl i am now since november of last year and we finally met right after i cut things off with the most recent girl. some of you may say, take a break or i jumped from one to another but the reason i was hooking with other girls on the side was cause i wasnt truly into these other ones. this one there is this crazy chemistry and we both have the same desire, wants and needs. thats why it seems so perfect. i never got any of this from the others. This is why ghost says i have a track record but who doesnt. thats what dating is about. trial and error. well this one is the winner!
ghost69 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 no no no. you don't get why i say that man. each time you start with a new girl you say how great she is and how compatible she is. same as this one. NOW, just NOW, you are just going much faster and everything sounds great....really, it does. i don't doubt that, never did. just still...
drewciouS281 Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 no no no. you don't get why i say that man. each time you start with a new girl you say how great she is and how compatible she is. same as this one. NOW, just NOW, you are just going much faster and everything sounds great....really, it does. i don't doubt that, never did. just still... yeah i did say that things were going good with the others but i also would mention problems or things i didnt like about them. thats why i posted cause i had concerns. this one i dont have anything negative to say about her. i posted a thread because it seems to good to be true but now im realizing that maybe it is the real deal for a serious long term relationship. all the other girls i would mention there were things i didnt like or were unsure of. This one, is perfect to me in every way shape or form. dont get me wrong i do understand your concern and valid points. i would probably think the same thing if all this happened to you.
drewciouS281 Posted February 5, 2009 Author Posted February 5, 2009 i know. like i said, i aint plannin on marryin the girl. just gonna go with the flow of it and see the outcome. i did decide not to make anything concrete committed until atleast alittle over a month. i am still only seeing her but im not gonna consider her my girlfriend until a tad longer.
lady00 Posted February 5, 2009 Posted February 5, 2009 That sounds wonderful. I hope that things work out for you two.
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