Can I get my girlfriend off only by fingering her?

[beejy04]

Hey, my girlfriend is a virgin, and would like to stay that way. she also isnt comfortable with me going down on her. is it possible for me to get her to orgasm using only my finger??

[Beec]

Absolutely, if you know what you are doing. If you don't ask her to show you or tell you. She is likely to know what works for her.

[livia_eve25]

hey, you definatly can, i've had multiple ones from only that, go for the G-spot, if you don't know where it is, she can most likely tell you. Good luck~!~

[I am hurt]

Yes definetly! Have her take your hand and show you how she likes it! Every woman has her own way of doing things. 8)

[HandJob]

To follow-up on "I am Hurt's" post, the most important thing to making a woman feel good and eventually (hopefully) reach orgasm is communication. I'm going to generalize here, but it's "generally" true: women need an emotional connection along with a physical one. You can be doing everything right but if she's uncomfortable or just not into it, it's probably not going to happen for her.

 

Along with that every woman has the same pieces, but they all need to be touched in different ways. Some like breast play before you go anywhere south of the border, some like little kisses, and some like cuddling or other things. You can simply ask, or you can pay very close attention to her body language and the sounds she makes to figure out what she likes.

 

If she's not comfortable showing you how to do it, just take your time and try to figure out what makes her toes curl, what makes her lift her hips, and what makes her moan (not all women moan, but it's a good sign). The most important thing is at the beginning be sure that you're focused on HER pleasuer. The sole purpose of what you're doing is pleasing her. You may get some attention later, but don't make that the "reason" you're doing it.

 

Of course you both should always have fun when fooling around.

[Happy_Go_Lucky_Heb]

Yup its all true. Don't b shy but watch for expressions.

 

Happy Heb

[neva_black_n_white]

yeah you can deffinitley get a girl off by doing that.

and maybe you could work on the whole going down on her, i know i didnt start off too comfortable to the idea but i guess i have to kind off trust people first. its a pretty personal thing really isnt it.

 

but indeed you can!

so go for it.

kel

[ChrisYellowV6Stang]

ideas: if you slide your finger(s) in her, rub along the top of it. you'll feel a little bump thing in there, it's also known as the g-spot. This is where the clitoris comes internally...where a girl gets the pleasure from penetration. If you rub up there, you may get a reaction. Some girls go wild over this, some don't whatsoever (or so i've been told. Only ever tried this on my current girlfriend and she seems to like it.) Don't just go straight on it, that hurts. If she likes it, rub it some, then all around the rest. Also try sucking her nipples, and you may eventaully be able to kiss down far enough for her to let you go down on her. Good luck