finish or come?

[allstarsassyone]

I don't see why my bf says "finish" instead of "cum". It sounds like he is just finishing something...like a task, or a job he does. Cum sounds more sexier and it's what everyone else uses. It just sounds funny. Why do you think he calls it that?

[kuhl282000]

Why don't you just ask him instead of guessing ? Tell him you don't like it when he says that and that it turns you off. He will understand. It's just a word.

 

Kuhl

[abcd1234]

Different people use different words to describe things, its probably just what he is used to saying.

[neva_black_n_white]

i second that comment. i mean in all honesty we cant provide an accurate answer its something you need to talk about with him. and well what do you use around him? ''cum''?

 

because if you want your point to come accross (if he doesnt appreciate you saying you dislike it) then you use it and see just how much hes turned on by it.

 

it may be the fact that everyone else uses ''cum'' that he doesnt want to use it. you never know.

 

kel

[S4il]

i Call it Opening the flood gate

[neva_black_n_white]

thats impressive S4il lol to the flood though, that much?

 

to be honest my man doesnt say ''cum''

depends what were doing really, but with handjobs or blowjobz he tens to say ''im gonna go'' which is usually said really faint when enjoying but then again details are not what people want to listen to lol

 

i guess abcd1234 was pretty accurate, we all have different ways of saying things.

 

kel

[S4il]

No it's not that much...lol it's just a term i use b/c when a guy does climax, it sort of has that feeling, relieving..umm like something is being back pressured, and than when it opens, the feeling is something similar to picturing a flood gate opening..and all that water that was held back is now being released..sort of like a fire hose too...But really i could go on with using other words, but I'll leave those to myself.