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Confessing feelings to people.. beneficial?


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hey everybody... i was recently wondering..

 

how successful or benefitial is directly telling someone you like them (someone who is a bit more than an acquaintance but not quite a friend but with whom you have a slightly flirty relationship..) how benefitial is it in order to either get to make out with them or end up dating them? to confess your feelings of attraction... to actually verbalize them or write them...

 

i mean obviously the effectiveness and outcome depends on whether or not they like you back but is it possible that confessing your feelings just totally ruins your chances all together?

 

im saying it because body language tends to do all the work in the flirting game, but can actual confession of feelings speed up the whole process in a positive way? or maybe, does it ruin the whole thing because suddenly you hand over all the power to the other person? is it totally the wrong thing to do?

 

what are your experiences or anything at all (opinions, etc) with actually confessing to someone your feelings or the fact that you have a crush on them? thanks!

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well it really depends on how long you have been flirting with this person. If you have been flirting with them for a while now and say nothing then confessing to them would actually make your relationship move to the next level. If you guys have just started flirting then I would wait a a couple more weeks to build a stronger bond before confessing.

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Feelings are like a boiling kette in these situations..if you dont let them out it will explode.If you give out a bit of the pressure off your mind things could get alot better..they could go backwards but at the end of the day that intial pressure wont be banging in your brain.You will know where you stand.

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There's ways to vent your feelings for the object of your desire without having to just lay yourself out there for a total rejection.

 

It's called flirting... Either your flirts are appreciated or you will get the signal they are unwelcomed. If it's the latter then drop it and move on, but do so in a friendly way. Just becasue she isn't attracted to you that doesn't mean she doesn't have a high opinion of you. You don't want her thinking your an a-hole! Word gets around you know...

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