SpaceGray Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I am. This is the first time in 5 years. Can't say I'm not disappointed but I'd rather be alone than stay in a volatile relationship. I think I will go snowboarding. When I ride my board it's just me and the snow. Pure tranquility. What will you do on V day if you are single? Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I have 15 days to get a GF, I don't think I'm gonna make it Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I have never in my life had anyone on Valentine's Day so this is just a regular day for me. Link to comment
Panda2008 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Me! For the first time in six years. Looking forward to not worrying about whether he's bothered to even buy me a card, or bought me a card with 'best wishes' in it LOL. V day is a load of crapola anyways! Link to comment
tinydancer81 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Me too but its just another day y'know....if you really care for someone why not buy them little cards and things whenever you feel like it. Why wait for that one day in the year? Personally i like to send a card now and then or give my boyf something when i feel like it, not go with the masses and go all out cause its expected. Saying that a bunch of flowers from someone unexpected on V day would be awesome Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 me! but I was in a long distance so I never really spent it with someone, andddd we didn't "celetrate" it because we both agreed it was what Panda2008 said. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I am in a realtionship, but we don't celebrate it. We both agree it's a stupid holiday. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 V-Day is just the day when my lonely ex'es call to feel if they can rekindle something. It's quite an anoyance to remind them why it will not work. Link to comment
coolgirl Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I'll be doing nothing special. Thats for sure. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i just want a valentine for the day. know what i'm sayin? thank god it's on a saturday this year. that leaves me a whole night to find one. hehe yes, i'm single. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i just want a valentine for the day. know what i'm sayin? thank god it's on a saturday this year. that leaves me a whole night to find one. hehe yes, i'm single. You're just fishing for an ENA secret valentine... Admit it. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 You're just fishing for an ENA secret valentine... Admit it. not really. Link to comment
Jetta Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Still totally single after my 2nd divorce, and hoping that doesn't last the rest of my life. I'm having dinner with my mom, but we live together so that's not unusual. Yes I've become everything I used to detest. Link to comment
LAYAAN Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 ya, I'll be spending it alone as well. Will hang out with myself in my car. Will go for a drive or will go jogging somewhere in new area. Link to comment
hers Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i'm spending it alone and i dont care. i think valentine's day is the stupidest holiday ever and it makes no difference to me if im alone or with someone. i've never really celebrated it. Link to comment
flash83 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 i love celebrating vday, i know some people think its stupid but im one of those corny guys. anyhow it looks like ill be spending it alone for the first time in 6 years dating back to when i was 18. will be interesting. Link to comment
Comatose Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I normally go into town on the weekends - but I think on Valentines day Saturday I'll just stay home. I wish I could look at couples and aspire towards that - but I know that the majority of "happy" couples I would see on Valentines day and be jealous of probably aren't even that satisfied in their relationship ... maybe that's melodramtic, but sometimes it all just seems like a big sham to me. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I normally go into town on the weekends - but I think on Valentines day Saturday I'll just stay home. I wish I could look at couples and aspire towards that - but I know that the majority of "happy" couples I would see on Valentines day and be jealous of probably aren't even that satisfied in their relationship ... maybe that's melodramtic, but sometimes it all just seems like a big sham to me. hit up the party scene and meet some singles. 'tis what i'll be doing. i'm vampiric and women are my blood that night. so to speak. hehe Link to comment
Comatose Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Not really a part scene kinda guy - but yeah I get what you're saying. I plan on trying to enjoy the day atleast. Although honestly I know I'll be feeling a tiny bit self pitying. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 you don't have to be a partier to hit the scene though. or do you just not enjoy being around a bunch of people? Link to comment
Comatose Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Honestly the only "clubs" around here are either very ghetto, or a very ... well, don't know how to put it other than ... white. Have been to a couple of the upperscale places, and felt very weird, on the verdge of uncomfortable and unwelcome. I prefer going dancing to going clubbing. Might do that ... there are always older ladies willing to dance. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Honestly the only "clubs" around here are either very ghetto, or a very ... well, don't know how to put it other than ... white. Have been to a couple of the upperscale places, and felt very weird, on the verdge of uncomfortable and unwelcome. I prefer going dancing to going clubbing. Might do that ... there are always older ladies willing to dance. we have everything here. hip hop clubs, techno clubs, high class clubs, regular bars, sports bars, dive bars, etc. so much to choose from. Link to comment
Comatose Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 we have everything here. hip hop clubs, techno clubs, high class clubs, regular bars, sports bars, dive bars, etc. so much to choose from. Lucky you. ](*,) lol Link to comment
CrazyKing Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 I am. This is the first time in 5 years. Can't say I'm not disappointed but I'd rather be alone than stay in a volatile relationship. I think I will go snowboarding. When I ride my board it's just me and the snow. Pure tranquility. What will you do on V day if you are single? I have been alone on every single valentines day since I was born, lol... A few years ago my usual practice on Valentines day was sitting alone and crying in my room or drinking with some pals who also are some of those who only have one-week-girlfriends, but since I've discovered that being self-pity is not an option - I know that this year I'm going to spend it spreading happiness everywhere I go, I love couples, they're quite interesting indeed and I'm not ready for relationships yet... I'll bet that you have at least a few friends that spend Valentines day alone, too?!?!? Just have fun, nowadays it's just one of those commercial days where Hallmark gets an income boost, love is everywhere and everyday... Link to comment
Alabama Posted January 30, 2009 Share Posted January 30, 2009 Probably play games. Go to the library, shut out the world, and escape that day for all it's worth. Link to comment
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