RussaKong Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 i hope some one can help me....... i recently cheated on my girlfriend and at frist i felt bad about it but then as days went on i saw that i could do it more. So know i been on the look to do it more, dont get me wrong i love her so much we been together for like 3 years but i'm kinda sick of her. i dont want to hurt her but i like someone else what do i do? Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 You take the honorable way out and break up with your girlfriend. No matter if you like someone else, you will seriously hurt your girlfriend even more if you go behind her back. If you love her so much, why would you cheat on her or be sick of her? Im sorry if this sounds harsh, but you need to rectify this situation and quick before your girlfriend finds out, if she hasn't already. Link to comment
emma34 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 its pretty simple, you break up with her or choose not to cheat on her. Link to comment
emma34 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 unless u do not care at all about her, in which case continue looking to cheat Link to comment
FloatingAnchor Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 You don't have a choice. Even if you don't continue sleeping with the other girl, you should break up with your girlfriend. You're getting "sick of her?!" Link to comment
denise_14 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 There's a reason why she is your girlfriend and the other girl is not. Even if you are getting sick of her, you love her, you must be faithful..but then again, choose the girl that makes you genuinely happy.Yo have to figure out if it's your girlfriend, or the new one. Link to comment
ca-sunshine Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 You cheated on her, you're actively looking to do it repeatedly, and you're "sick of her"? Sorry if it's not believable when you say you "love" her. Do her a favor and break up now. Don't make her go through what it sounds like you're about to do to her. Link to comment
homeagain Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 when i was a little kid, my parents were sticklers for the "golden rule": always treat others like you would want to be treated. if it were her saying this and not you, would you be so cavalier about the cheating? Link to comment
top bloke Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 i hope some one can help me....... i recently cheated on my girlfriend and at frist i felt bad about it but then as days went on i saw that i could do it more. So know i been on the look to do it more, dont get me wrong i love her so much we been together for like 3 years but i'm kinda sick of her. i dont want to hurt her but i like someone else what do i do? What do you do? Be true to your feelings and realise that you are not right for a commited relationship when you are running the stable. If your current woman was your love..you would talk to her about why you feel the way you do. If you really want to sleep with someone else and you want to get away from your girlfriend then why are you killing yourself? My advice if theres hope try to fix it. If there is no hope and you just love sex then you arent only cheating on her. You are cheating on yourself.. You will cause heartache for yourself and her.. Make your choice. Link to comment
Beautiful Nightmare Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 I think you should stop lying to yourself by saying that you love her. If you did love her, you wouldn’t intentionally hurt her, which is what you’re doing by actively looking to cheat. Now, people make mistakes, and cheating falls under that category. But you know what you’re doing, you recognize that it’s wrong and yet you still want to hurt your girlfriend. Would you call that love? I don’t think so. If you even remotely care about your girlfriend, please do both her and yourself a huge favor and break up with her. She deserves better, and quite frankly, you don’t sound like you’re ready to settle down and be in a committed relationship. Do the right thing, man. You both deserve to be happy but that’s obviously not going to happen if you stay together. Link to comment
hgurl16 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 you should be a man and break up with her .. it will be the best thing for her in the long run Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 28, 2009 Share Posted January 28, 2009 break up with her. you don't want to hurt her? too late for that. Link to comment
savignon Posted January 29, 2009 Share Posted January 29, 2009 Man up and break up with her. No girl wants to be with a guy who cheats or is "sick of her" and you leaving her in the dark about those 2 things is just awful. If she knew, she'd probably dump you, but you're on your little power trip by getting away with this....ick. Link to comment
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