Just had a dream about my ex.

[solariseclipse]

and in that dream we got back together. I woke up thinking it was real, and was really happy until I came to reality and realized we weren't together anymore.

 

P.S it's been around a year and a half since we've broken up, and I haven't thought about her for a good 6 months. I thought I had fully gotten over her and could deal with NC for the rest of my life. Funny thing is I have this whole rush of emotions and for some reason really want to talk to her now.

 

Any one else ever go through this?

[fiffy]

Hey,

 

I am still struggling to get over my ex 7 months on. I dream also about him.

 

Most of the time I dream about being in contact with him again and him screaming, shouting and putting me down. Basically just the reality of the situation. Sometimes I have dreams where we are back together, but usually they are nightmares.

 

I think it comes from somewhere in your subconscious you are still thinking about your ex. You probably don't even want to gt back together with her but your brain sifts through the information and it comes out as a dream of reconcilliation.

 

I understand how shook up you feel. I feel this every morning. I mainly feel it because thoughts of my ex are stressful, so I wake up stressed. Don't read too much into it, just try and forget about the dream so your thoughts are not focused back on her.

 

It just makes you wonder, do our exs ever dream of us?

[thorpe]

and in that dream we got back together. I woke up thinking it was real, and was really happy until I came to reality and realized we weren't together anymore.

 

P.S it's been around a year and a half since we've broken up, and I haven't thought about her for a good 6 months. I thought I had fully gotten over her and could deal with NC for the rest of my life. Funny thing is I have this whole rush of emotions and for some reason really want to talk to her now.

 

Any one else ever go through this?

 

I dream about my ex-wife sometimes. We broke up 12 years ago. 1st 2 years were bad, the past 10 have been ok and I had no particular drive to talk to her and we were in LC, Xmas cards and the odd email. This Christmas I really missed her and wrote a couple of emails keeping them light and funny even though I just wanted to say how much I missed her.

 

So yes we all slip a slide a bit. You sound as if you are doing quite well. If you can go 6 months without thinking about her you are probably in a good place to start a new relationship and that's when you really put your ex behind you.