lilmzlisa Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 As the title says i just dont know what is wrong with me!! I've met guys when ive been out and they seem interested and call me and text, but then they want to meet up and ask for a picture and then after i send a picure they dont seem interested, i feel like im just too ugly, my friends say im not, but i dont know if they are just saying that to make me feel better. This is going to sound really mean but one of my friends isnt exactly one of the nicest looking girls, but she is lovely and she has a boyfriend and i just think why has she got a boyfriend and i havent am i seriosuly that ugly that no-one wants me, its driving me mad because i just want to find someone i like and someone that likes me too, but i just feel like i never will because im too ugly in real life, rather than when im out and all dressed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Advice Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 It could be the picture. It might not be. Do you find yourself good looking when you look in the mirror? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpion Fury Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 are these guys you meet online or guys you meet at a club or something face to face and they ask for a pic the next day or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Looks arent everything. These guys might not think your ugly, you might not be there physical type, its nothing overly personal or something that means your unnattractive. Also just because your friend isnt fantastic looking to you, her boyfriend may not be shallow and may love her for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilmzlisa Posted January 26, 2009 Author Share Posted January 26, 2009 I met these guys when i was out on a night out in a club. And it depends some days i think i look nice, whereas others i dont think i look nice, but i think everyone has those days, i just feel really down, like i'll never find anyone, i know looks arent important but they must be because nobody seems to like me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SapphireNoir10 Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Looks arent important. Otherwise, loads of people would be single. There is someone for everyone. Someones angelina jolie is another persons troll. You have to keep looking, everyone has good and bad days and you will find someone who loves you for you, on those good and bad days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpion Fury Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 I met these guys when i was out on a night out in a club. And it depends some days i think i look nice, whereas others i dont think i look nice, but i think everyone has those days, i just feel really down, like i'll never find anyone, i know looks arent important but they must be because nobody seems to like me. unless they were all really drunk when they met you and had beer goggles, I doubt all of them would be into you one minute and then find you repugnant the next. how many guys has this happened with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilmzlisa Posted January 26, 2009 Author Share Posted January 26, 2009 Its only happened with one guy, but its just really knocked me back and made me think about when im not out and dressed up all nice and just normal i dont seem to attract any attention as my normal self, so i feel like im never going to meet anyone unless im dressed all pretty all the time, which wont be my real self. I just wish i was prettier and then maybe someone would like me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpion Fury Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Its only happened with one guy, but its just really knocked me back and made me think about when im not out and dressed up all nice and just normal i dont seem to attract any attention as my normal self, so i feel like im never going to meet anyone unless im dressed all pretty all the time, which wont be my real self. I just wish i was prettier and then maybe someone would like me one guy? come on! you made it sound like this was a pattern. I wouldn't worry at all what one guy thought. for whatever reason, he lost interest. maybe he hooked up with someone else, maybe he lost his phone, it could be anything. Don't take it personally. Maybe it had nothing to do with your looks. Confidence is sexy. You're not going to get positive attention from any guy if you have no confidence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D_Lish Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 I've met guys when ive been out and they seem interested and call me and text, but then they want to meet up and ask for a picture and then after i send a picure they dont seem interested... How come you are meeting them in real life and in clubs and they then ask for a picture? Why would they need a picture, if they have already seen you? And true say....if looks were important, there would be a lot of people still single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilmzlisa Posted January 26, 2009 Author Share Posted January 26, 2009 Well it was one guy recently but there have been others in the past, i think im just going through a rough patch at the moment and just needed to talk because i just feel really down, i dont know what to think, i guess im just lonely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpion Fury Posted January 26, 2009 Share Posted January 26, 2009 Well it was one guy recently but there have been others in the past, i think im just going through a rough patch at the moment and just needed to talk because i just feel really down, i dont know what to think, i guess im just lonely. Meh we all have our days. Try to cheer up some. There is someone for everyone. If they weren't attracted to you in the first place, they wouldn't ask for your number. Go get a pedicure or something, you'll feel better. 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bebeblondie Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 You can't be that bad, if guys are asking you for your number in person. It is very typical for a guy you meet in a club or bar to just stop texting or calling all of a sudden. Chances are they just lost interest, or found someone else...they didn't just wake up one morning and decide you're ugly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Advice Posted January 27, 2009 Share Posted January 27, 2009 lil looks are important. However, you sure it isn't your attitude and not your looks that are turning em away? Some women come accross as cold and unapproachable even when they are just shy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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