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So I am seeing this new girl, who I find incredibly attractive. We've hooked up 5 times now and it is absolutly amazing. It is the most intense and a passionate sex I've ever had. The only problem is I've only been able to get off once out of the 5 times we've been together. THis doesn't really bother me as I still really enjoy it.

 

My only concern is that if this keeps happening she might think that I'm not into her or don't find her attractive, and that is definitly not the case. I've never had this problem before, in fact usually its the opposite. Any thoughts?

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Hi! Actually I would suggest you speak with her - tell her exactly what you just wrote - that you find her amazing. The reason why I say this is that yes, she is likely wondering why you are not finishing and if it has anything to do with her.

 

I had this happen to me once - dated someone for a little while and out of 4 times he never finished. It was a turn off to me, and it also made me wonder if I was doing something wrong. After we broke up he confessed that he had never been with someone like me before and was falling in love yet and the sex itself was great but he was just so anxious about pleasing me that he never finished. If he had been honest like that and let me know what was going on in the first place, we would have dated for a lot longer.

 

So... let her know that you really really like her and that'll comfort her in some way.

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Let her know that it isn't her then. I bet you will get over this in a few weeks. You may have a mental block or something that is not allowing you to finish. For the time being lay off the porn, mastubating or anything else and see what happens. It sounds like you really enjoy being with her so make sure she knows that no matter if you finish or not. I think being open with her will help both of you.

 

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I'm not on any meds abd I'm out of school. Only one of the times I had been drinking.

 

Ghost you know the feeling you get right before you cym? Well it feels like that almost the entire time I just never actually get there.

 

i think you are pressuring yourself to finish and you are so focused you are giving yourself stage fright.

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