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Girlfriend shaving issue, Can I bring it up?


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Was just wondering what everyone thought and hopefully to get a female point of view.

 

My girlfriend shaves down there and has always taken good care of that area. She knows I like it... but she also has hair around her anus. Ive never noticed it with any of the girls ive been with in the past and for some reason it bugs me. Its not a huge deal to me, but enough to be posting here about it.

 

Im thinking maybe she doesnt know its there because well... she does such a good job elsewhere

 

Can I bring it up at all?

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It's easy to miss that area, cuz we can't see there while shaving.

 

You can bring it up, but very lightly. Offer to give her a massage while she's naked. Massage her butt cheeks, spread em, & jokingly say "hey babe u missed a spot" & laugh it off. DON'T SAY IT DURING SEX lol

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Do you shave your anus? It is natural to have some hair around those regions you know!

Waxing would be a good way to remove it if she is interested in doing so, but I think you're being picky.

 

I don't think he's being picky, & it has nothing to do with loving the person.

 

If I was a guy, it would turn me off too to know she shaves everywhere but misses her anus lol

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No, I wouldnt, just live with it. Does it matter? Does it stop you loving her or wanting her?

 

Yep, I totally agree. I think if you say anything you will end up embarrassing her and making her feel self conscious..and if she is not very adept at removing hair from that very hard to reach and see place then she will feel frustrated and self conscious when she gets intimate with you. Also, not everyone is comfortable having someone else spread their butt cheeks to shave it, even if it is your "for now" partner. You may be her partner now, but will you be her partner forever? What about the next guy...she will then wonder if the next guy will have a complex about butt hair. Completely hairless everywhere seems to be this necessity for many men...if they want hairless get a Mexican hairless dog...that should satisfy their fetish for smooth hairless skin! Honestly, they don't say "stick it where the sun don't shine" for no reason...if the sun don't shine over there, why agonize over hair just because a guy wants to lick the place where poop comes out! The pubic hair and butt hair is there for a reason, biologically speaking....it was not put there to annoy people...mother nature didn't consider people licking those regions like a dog when she created hair in the nether regions..she was thinking functionality. With this ridiculous obsession with pubic/anal hairlessness for the sake of licking comfort that people on this forum seem to have, it just amazes me how people just go to ridiculous proportions and end up having to feel humiliated if they "missed a spot".

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I would not say anything. Even bringing it up in a joking matter will probably make her feel embarrassed & as CAD said, give her a butt hair complex!

 

Have you shaved your butt hair? Until you do.. & realize how itchy & uncomfortable it can be, it's best to just deal with it!

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I would not say anything. Even bringing it up in a joking matter will probably make her feel embarrassed & as CAD said, give her a butt hair complex!

 

Have you shaved your butt hair? Until you do.. & realize how itchy & uncomfortable it can be, it's best to just deal with it!

 

 

Yes and I agree!

 

There is nothing wrong with hair on a woman down there, front or back.

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well you can if only oyu do it in a smart way, eg - let her think that there is something you are dying to do, as a big desire for you, tell her you wish to shave her, and play with her hold her, so on make love to her in the bath, make it sound interestine, let her promise you, that she will allow you to, try to do it exactly how she does, so she wont think you dont like it, and then just shave her around where u wish to, if she say's stop just tell her come on babe but there is alot of hair there we need to do a better job, play around tell her" stuff like let see who will do the best job there, just make it fun say i love u sooo much after.

 

Men can get their ways with woman but just need to do it like all woman will want it to be done, tell them what they want to hear, same way if you don't love a girl but just want to sleep with her, you say all nice things she would want to hear and then you finally sleep with her and gone right same way.

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ok so this is just my opinion and for those who dont like it, eat me! lol.

 

No i dont shave my anus cause im a dude. Dudes are supposed to have hair down there.

 

My opinion on the other hand are is that females arent meant to have as much hair as men or even in certain orgins. lol. so on that note i would totally tell her about it but lightly. Im sorry but thats gross. I was seeing this girl for a while and when we finally did the deed i was rubbin her lower butt cheeks and felt a ton of hair. i had never felt hair like this before and it instantly turned me off. I stopped talking to her after that. call me picky, cold, whatever but its just my preferance.

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An article about how society expects women to be hairless and men to have hair...and how women are shamed if they have hair...and they are supposed to make their hairlessness look effortless.

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Hmm I downloaded the article if anyone is interested. I was going to attach it but apparently I can't..? Perhaps I am not allowed to attach pdf's.

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I'd be sad if my bf told me this in any way! but I think one thing you can do is one time ask her to shave for her playfully. and when you are shaving for her shave around the butt too. if she asked what are you doing? just say oh there is some there, I wanna get it all. But I think if you can just just overlook it. seriously, women have been having pubic hair forever even in older pornos you can see it and men would get turned on by women like that all the time. Now it is like it is a sin or sth to have hair down there off course just foe women cause as drewcious said "men are supposed to have hair down there" he is right tho, nothing is as enjoyable as men's butt hair!!!

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Do you guys saying a girl needs to shave EVERYTHING realize how difficult it is to shave all the way back?

 

You have to be some sort of freakin contortionist just to make sure you don't miss a spot.

 

that is crazy, my question is why should you try so hard not to miss a spot since the day after it is going to come out again! I think men like him should chill out a bit. I know I would not want a guy whose love for me changes for some stupid hair.

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that is crazy, my question is why should you try so hard not to miss a spot since the day after it is going to come out again! I think men like him should chill out a bit. I know I would not want a guy whose love for me changes for some stupid hair.

 

 

A way around that is to tell the guy that the minute he goes bald on his head you will no longer be in love with him...then let him run around spending tons of money and aggravation to add back hair on his head!

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Some chicks like dudes with ass hair. Some men like chicks with ass hair. Frankly if you can braid my ass hair without speading my cheeks it's a little overwhelming. If this was the case I'd do something about it. However the ass hair that does exsist isn't so overwhelming will continue to exsist.

 

Why? because shaving your ass cheeks is effing hard. Okay? HARD. I mean you hold the razor with one hand but you need 2 hands to spread the cheeks. Think about that. I don't have 3 hands do you?

 

And I completely disagree with men are "supposed" to have more hair. No. All people are supposed to have hair. You are supposed to have as much hair as if you were to never, ever shave. That is how much hair you're "supposed" to have. Men do NOT get a free pass to let all hair grow free, especially if women don't get the same free pass. "Eat me" if you don't like it. Sorry, I'll dump your hairy ass (literally) if you fail to take care of yourself. I mean pubes too. I don't floss because I don't like to, I especially don't want to floss with your PUBES if I so feel like giving. I expect a man who grooms if he expects me to groom. That's called courtesty.

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I'd be sad if my bf told me this in any way! but I think one thing you can do is one time ask her to shave for her playfully. and when you are shaving for her shave around the butt too. if she asked what are you doing? just say oh there is some there, I wanna get it all. But I think if you can just just overlook it. seriously, women have been having pubic hair forever even in older pornos you can see it and men would get turned on by women like that all the time. Now it is like it is a sin or sth to have hair down there off course just foe women cause as drewcious said "men are supposed to have hair down there" he is right tho, nothing is as enjoyable as men's butt hair!!!

 

 

the first part of this i agree with. My ex didnt have hair there but every girl has peach fuzz there so sometimes when we felt kinky she let me shave her bung hole. granted you have to be extremely comfortable with your SO for this but wow did it turn me on!!!!!!!

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