can u please help me

[sk8er_gal]

What are some original romantic ideas for a first date? like where should i take my (girl) date and what can we do etc and when should i make a move to kiss?

[Nifty_Swifty1]

It isn't always a good idea to get to romantic on a first date. I would keep it simple if I were you. Go for dinner and a movie or put-put. Something light. As for your move, that's up to you, but I usually won't go for anything on the first couple of dates, but I guess I'm just a little old school when it comes to the formalities of dating. I wont even date someone with out asking her father permission first… Or in my ex's case I had to ask her mother because her father wasn't around.

 

I guess you weren't asking about me were you? I guess the only real advice I have is that you should just keep it simple.

[boxcar1134]

i definitely agree with Nifty_Swifty1. for a first date you should keep it light and fun. first dates are usually a chance to get-to-know eachother better...that sort of thing. if you really feel the urge to make a move...the most i would reccomend is a small goodnite kiss on the cheek but first dates are usually 100 times better when you just have fun and there is no pressure. you could always go see a movie and hold hands. i think that is very sweet and romantic. plus it doesn't take things too fast.

 

 

 

 

 

hope that helps....

[inu yasha]

Hi,

 

I agree with what the other members have said. Going to romantic on a first date isn't the best thing to do. As suggested keep it fun and simple it's the best thing to do. First dates are supposed to be special and remembered so think of something fun that you two might like doing together. Possibly go to a movie, have something to eat afterwards and go for a walk on a beach (prefeably, when it isn't cold). I mean you know the person alot better than we do so any advice you receive in the end it's really up to you what you want to do, you know in your heart what you want to do but your just not sure. As boxcar suggested give her a goodnight kiss at the end or a peck on the cheek is ok for a first date. Taking things too fast always leads to confusion so take it slow and see how it goes.

 

Hope this has been of some help, all the best

 

Inu Yasha

[neva_black_n_white]

remember the saying ''you cant always be hand fed''?

 

well i guess what im saying is, that every place in the world, every person and every moment is different. so really, yeah we could give ideas, like go to the cinema, take a walk, be sensitive and get to know her.

 

but lets face it! we arent you, we dont know how you like to do things, you have to be as comfortable as her to enjoy it, like do something you usually do or take an interest in.

 

we cant hand feed you, tell you to go to the pictures, kiss her at a quater past five half way through the movie.

it just doesnt work like that.

 

be you, and youll know.

good luck.

kel