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Update on What Do I Say When He Turns Me Down


kodak

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So the guy who dumped me said he'd think about getting together when I invited him to meetup this past weekend. He had a few days to get back to me, but never did. This was after toying with me a little, asking me to give list off the reasons why... I said because I miss you and want to give you some of your things.

 

Anyway, so last night he texted me, bringing up a memory of a place we'd spent a really great time at, a time when we first really bonded, started falling for each other, etc. He asked no question, just made a statement.

 

I haven't answered.

 

What's up with that? What's he trying to do?

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It sounds like he's not interested in rekindling the relationship, but that he's having fun messing with you to keep you on the hook. I haven't read your posts, but he sounds kind of mean. To ignore you and then 'tease' you with a little reminder of your good times...? Very cat and mouse.

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No, CAgirl, I don't really need to see him. I wanted to and was worried about his job situation, since he lost it but has not yet told me about losing it.

 

Keenan and Blueafterglow, I do think he's toying with me, sadly.

 

Heartgoeson, I know I shouldn't have asked to meetup, I was willing to take the risk though and lived through his silent rejection. It fed his ego, I'm sure. As did his asking me to list off reasons why I wanted to see him...

 

I think he was probably a little surprised I didn't call him over the weekend to check on our possible meetup or to ask why he never contacted me.

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