confused

[pochaco]

i haven't had a boy friend in like 2 months ive been asked out alot and i like the guys but i always say no i dunno why... i want a boy friend but how come i always say no even if i do like the guy its like im not attracted to them as much once they ask me out maybe im just running away from a relashinship but its not like me to do that

[xoxlarixox]

hey..i totally understand u!....i use to do the saym thing..in fact, i use to say yes, and then break up with them on the second date..whihc was horrible..and i nvr could figure out y...but about 5 months ago i figured it out...my problem was that i didnt know the guy enough to date him...that and plus i liked flirting with alot of guys that when they asked me out i said no because i didnt want to be in a "cage" ..my advice to you....is WAIT, just let time do all the healing, and while that time is doing its job, wut YOU have to do, is really get to know the guy, or guys...let one of them be your bets friend, and even hook up with him if u want, make him your boyfriend, but just dotn make it OFFICIAL, and once you think ur ready, tell him u want to be his gf..and voila!....but the main key here is time..and you CANNOT look for a relationsip right away..your missing a step...FRIDNSHIP...first look for a frindship then let that lead to a relationship....ok?....pm me if u have any questions....bye!! hope i helped