waveseer Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 i compare all women with their avatar..... If a woman did that to you, then you'd fair very well...50 stars! lol Note to self: don't make comments based on people's avatars and signatures, both of which are likely to change rendering the comment jibberish. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 22, 2009 Share Posted January 22, 2009 I dont think it would make sense to compare a gf to any other girl out there whether I know her or she is a celebrity. Other woman may have qualities or attributes that seem desirable but there is a reason why I am with my gf. I dont think that I lose sight of that fact. Link to comment
valiantv Posted February 5, 2009 Share Posted February 5, 2009 No... and I wouldn't want her comparing me to those guys on romantic movies... I know in both cases that they are not like that themselves, but thanks to a team of employees which normal women don't have. Havin said that, if I was single and Eva Longoria offered to **** my **** I wouldn't say no... Link to comment
canali Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 Her Destiny: you sound like a well balanced keeper...good on you for seeing below the exterior into your less than model-like guy and appreciate what really matters in the long run: substance, love, shared values, compatibility, etc (among other traits). Since I was in a relationship before I will say 'yes' I did compare (to porn, worst of all and I'm ashamed of it)...in our increasingly sexualized society (i mean sex and body image being strutted by gorgeous people is everywhere!) you really have to be careful down this road and look deep INSIDE for what really matters...so I give myself a failing grade of 'D' (for dunce!) Link to comment
lost1607307474 Posted February 7, 2009 Share Posted February 7, 2009 I never compare my boyfriend to unrealistic ideals of men and he never compares me to unrealistic ideals of women. We've discussed this a lot, he thinks I'm the perfect woman and I think he's the perfect man When you're in love, those kind of unrealistic ideals don't mean anything. Link to comment
HerDestiny Posted February 10, 2009 Author Share Posted February 10, 2009 I have a friend who is about 28 years old. He went out with this 'perfect' (HIS words) girl. Blonde hair to her butt, thin, blue eyes (if I remember right) and in his mind...no one compares to her in the looks department. I think he's seriously been comparing women who show interest in him now to this girl. They've been broken up for probably about ten years so they were teenagers then. For the past ten years since this girl...he hasn't had a single serious relationship. He's based EVERYTHING on looks. It's as if he doesn't care about anything with a woman beyond the superficial. I think he would've dumped his ex if he saw her wake up in the morning a few too many times with her hair a mess. He's spent a lot of time in strip clubs. The guy is so lonely and has been for a long time... He's been a close friend of mine for the past ten years (so I had the opportunity to know this 'perfect' girl) and another close friend of mine for over 15 years is nearly identical! I was beginning to think this may be the norm or something. I thought I might be the unusual one, here. Both of these guys are single. I think their view of women is so unrealistic. One of them watches a lot of TV and porn. I don't think he understands the connection between him living with his mother (in his FORTIES) and his TV and porn idea of how women should be. I think he'll be single forever. (Side note -- I was friends with him since we were about 20 so I had no idea he was going to end up like this in the future.) I am so glad I couldn't care less about superficial 'qualities' in a man! If I did...I might be 40 soon and living with my mother...watching pornos, wondering where I went wrong! And also wondering why any guy I meet in real life isn't...measuring up to what I'm used to seeing. I don't expect my boyfriend to spend his days at the gym and worry if he has a hair out of place or if the leather seats in his car are getting worn... I just expect him to be a guy. Work hard, get sweaty...and wear a TIGHT pair of jeans! Link to comment
My Advice Posted February 10, 2009 Share Posted February 10, 2009 one word. NO I am often not even attracted to most of Hollywood and when I am that doesn't mean I think they are hotter than girls I have met in real life. I have often been very attracted to beautiful women but the most beautiful to me were attractive imperfect looking ones who had something unique about them like a big nose (I love big noses on women) and a sexy personality. Link to comment
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