Asking for his # or not? =T

[pinkbunnie]

So, theres this one guy at work. He works for the construction. Our building at work is going through a remodeling. So there is A LOT OF guys there!!!

 

So, about this guy. He is around my age. Late 20's. Looks are good. Seeems nice. We talk briefly whenever we get the chance.. Usually not much because he is of course working all the time there!.. Few of his friends are asking me to go out with him and stuff. They even ask him if he would go out with me and he said yes.. BUt he hasn't ask me out yet. or for my #.... I dont know if i should wait.. OR just ask him out to go out sometime and his #? You think its werid for a girl to ask a guy out? That can happen right? It doesnt always need to be a guy to ask a girl out right? hehe.

 

But i am really interesting in him. Everytime he passes by or to talk I get so tempted to ask for his # or him out...BUt i of course chicken out!!!!

 

Any suggestions? Maybe i should just to get it over...regardless if he says no or yes?.....At least i tried right? that counts right? lol.

 

 

 

 

 

[Clarity]

It's not weird at all - don't let anyone convince you otherwise! Go for it!!

[De Mon Fa De]

Any suggestions? Maybe i should just to get it over...regardless if he says no or yes?.....At least i tried right? that counts right? lol.

 

Most guys are flattered to be asked out, even if they have to decline. Go for it, be cool if he says no at first tho; his situation could change later on and things might still work out one day.

[staircase]

I think it matters little how it starts, so long as it does and you don't let an opportunity slip you by.

[Xplode]

def go for it.

 

im a guy, and i think its awsome when girls are keen. just try not to come off desperate.

 

go more of the what are your plans for the weekend?... talk.. maybe we could catch up for coffee (interview)

 

done deal. it will be dinners, flowers and ... well you can make up the rest as u go.

have fun!

 

start of relationships are awsome! lol

[pinkbunnie]

cool thx all!! when i see him tomorrow and if its time right time.. i'll ask if he wants to hang out sometime... ( i dont want to ask when there is other people around us)...... Wish me luck!!! I'll update with the results.....I just hope i dont chicken out

[ghost69]

you can be assertive but joking about it too.

 

'hey ____. we gonna go out or what?' make sure you say it funny and flirty.

 

'you gonna ask me out or what?'

[Tru_Justice]

I think you should definitely do it. What do you got to lose? Worse can happen, he'll say no. But if he's already telling people he'll go out with you then you can't lose. Good luck.

[KG]

you can be assertive but joking about it too.

 

'hey ____. we gonna go out or what?' make sure you say it funny and flirty.

 

'you gonna ask me out or what?'

 

Second this!

[pinkbunnie]

well unfortunately, I didnt see him today. We were both too busy today. Although, some other dude came up and talked to me. though lol.

 

So, maybe some other time i'l ask....i'll let the nature take its course for now.