Thinking about things

[Band_Nerd]

Lets say you and your ex are on good terms now. During the process of the intial break up, he hurt you real bad. He comes back a few months later, wanting to prove it to you that he's better and that he can be better and that what he did was a mistake.

 

What do you do?

[LilBear]

It depends on why you broke up in the first place. If it's because of infidelity, then I wouldn't give him the time of day.

 

If you still love him, it's up to you to give him the chance to prove he is worthy again of your love. But then again, a relationship is a two-way street, you have to work on it too. Perhaps if you do want to work on a relationship with this man again, do sit down and talk things through. "Why didn't the relationship work previously?" "What can the both of you do to make it last this time?"

 

Remember, not all second chances work out. Proceed with caution.

[Xplode]

The award for best answer of the year goes to.... LilBear.

 

if he cheated.. then no... im not usually for second chances..

but then i think what if? what if thats what it took for him to realize how special and rare i was etc. etc.

 

so its completely up to your feelings. - do you love him, do you feel that the time apart has lead you to think that the relationship was good? before the breakup/incident

 

do what ur head says.. cause ur heart doesnt no nothing... but love and pain. and will try to avoid the pain. even if ur head doesnt agree.

[Band_Nerd]

No, there was no cheating involved...nothing but a broken heart. But we've been talking, and we're on really good terms now, and I think maybe if we tried, possibly things could work out.

[notshurewhy]

Depends on how you feel about him. Could you trust him again. Did he talk about it before he left or did he up and leave. If you love him and trust him and you think you can forgive him for what happened then you should try.. I wouldnt make yourself to available. See how serious he is about it.