Ex gone to the club every weekend since breakup yet is supposed to have ditched me for study!

[jerk chicken]

i am sooooooooo enraged right now, my ex has been 2 the club every weekend since break up yet the main reason for him dumping me was 2 focus on study/ couldnt handle stress of relationship as he had alot of things 2 get done, how come he has time to go out DURING EXAM PERIOD, till stupid o clock in the morning. i shouldnt care but its like he feels free now or something or wants some cheap sex cos he never used 2 go out much at all.

[Lionel Hutz]

Sorry but you gotta let him be happy if you really care about him. Live YOUR life now. Weve all gotten crap excuses for break ups. Chalk it up as a cowardly move.

[jettison]

The last thing you should EVER try to do is to hold a dumper to what their claims for breakup were. The real reason is invariably and universally, "I'm not in love with you. I really don't care to have sex with you anymore. If I don't see you again, then I think I'll be alright with it."

 

Anything else said or offered is mainly meant to spare your feelings and your ego.

[COtuner]

The last thing you should EVER try to do is to hold a dumper to what their claims for breakup were. The real reason is invariably and universally, "I'm not in love with you. I really don't care to have sex with you anymore. If I don't see you again, then I think I'll be alright with it."

 

Anything else said or offered is mainly meant to spare your feelings and your ego.

 

I agree with this for the most part. (there's circumstances like substance abuse, mental illness and such things that can lead to breakups where the love is still there but the ability and strength to be in a relationship is gone)

 

Now you know the guy was a jerk. Doesn't help, but it's a good point to think on as you move forwards.