PJPaul Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Ok ok ok, how come girls that break up with you always end up calling you in the future wanting to be friends? Stupid little girl, I want nothing to do with you! LOL You wanted to see if grass was greener, it ain't my fault that it isn't. Wow, wow, and wow......and wow again. lol I'm sitting in my room just laughing at it all. How come after they treat you like complete crap (although I was stupid enough to let it continue to happen) they leave because they think they can find better........Then, later they call back tryna be all friendly when they realize there isn't? After all the crap I put up with for both of these girls and they left because why? Girl, I know who you really are, don't play that nice girl act with me. Awww man immature women amuse me That made my night! Thank you for being a immature little girl so that I can laugh at you. A good laugh is always welcome (Sorry if I sounded like was generalizing all women. I know there are good women in the is world but oh man to the bad ones amuse me I was scared that I'd be sad upset when she decided to actually call after I have spoken to her in so long but I've gotten completer over her and laughed in her face! OMG!!! and I feel kind bad for laughing at her but I truly couldn't hold it in. She did exactly what everyone said she would and said exactly what all you guys have told me she would. I just laughed. I feel so much better now Ahhh I'm gonna go clean up the garage and organize the tools before I lose my high LOL Thanks Guys your all friggin' awesome and you truly know your stuff. For all that who has given me advice I truly appreciate it and go thru life knowing that you truly helped someone get out of rough rut in there life and can now look back it all and laugh. (((ENA HUGS))) Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 To all the men and women alike, It's their loss!! Link to comment
Himynamesbob Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Man i really hope i have this attitude about my recent ex one day Link to comment
CAgirl Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Hooray! I hope that your good feelings last. : ) Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 Yay! PJ, it's great to see you have this positive attitude. You're ready to take on the world, my friend. But first, start with the garage and the tools. Don't lose that momentum! Link to comment
hanalei Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 I don't think I can end up feeling like this towards my ex. I appreciate all the stuff she has done for me, and all the times she has been there and picked me up and stuck with me through my lows. I don't hate her for not loving me anymore and wanting to go on and date other people. The breakup could have been handled different, but I know it was hard for her to deal with me when I was begging like a * * * * * . I hope to hear from her one day actually waaay later down the line when I am completely healed because we had so much in common and I really enjoyed my time with her. Link to comment
fiffy Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 You have a really great attitudue to the sitution- well done for staying strong and yourself! Sometimes I wish my ex would have come back realising the grass isn't greener but he never makes me feel even worse- that I was really worth getting rid of! Link to comment
PJPaul Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 To all the men and women alike, It's their loss!! And once I realized that I began to feel better about the whole thing. I know ima good man that tries his absolute hardest in his relationship. If she can't appreciate that then to hell with her. I'll find me a good women one day that will Man i really hope i have this attitude about my recent ex one day You will just give it time. I was only with her for a year so I go over it fairly quickly. You really can't compare times if you've been with her for 6 years ya know. Just give it time and focus on yourself. You'll find that making yourself happy is way easier and less expensive than making someone esle happy. In due time my good friend......and NC Hooray! I hope that your good feelings last. : ) Me too!!! Yay! PJ, it's great to see you have this positive attitude. You're ready to take on the world, my friend. But first, start with the garage and the tools. Don't lose that momentum! Yeah your right. LOL baby steps, baby steps. I know I'm still not remotely ready to date because I know I'll prejudge who ever it is that I'm dating and make her pay for what others have previously done to me. I've been in those shoes before. No fun at all so i'll be damned if I put anyone else through that. I'm staying single not only to protect myself but to protected a woman that maybe me a great from me not appreciating her. I'm just a little to beat up in the heart to see it and I'd carry it like she's any o'l girl that acts like a high schooler. That's not right so I wont do it You have a really great attitudue to the sitution- well done for staying strong and yourself! Sometimes I wish my ex would have come back realising the grass isn't greener but he never makes me feel even worse- that I was really worth getting rid of! Yeah I try have a good attitude about it. I was bitter and mad for a while though. And stop wishing on him. The sooner you put him in the back of your mind they better you'll be. My mom told me that its ok to forget about past ex's but never forget what you've learned from them. The Universe is just weird like that. As soon as you get completely over him. Your phone a ring with some strange number you don't recognize and he'll be on the other end tryna be all nice. The you can remember my post, point and laugh I don't think I can end up feeling like this towards my ex. I appreciate all the stuff she has done for me, and all the times she has been there and picked me up and stuck with me through my lows. I don't hate her for not loving me anymore and wanting to go on and date other people. The breakup could have been handled different, but I know it was hard for her to deal with me when I was begging like a * * * * * . I hope to hear from her one day actually waaay later down the line when I am completely healed because we had so much in common and I really enjoyed my time with her. Well from what you said your ex must have been good to you. The more time that goes by the more I realize how bad of a GF she really was to me. Her main goal it seemed was to catch me doing something wrong. I always got accused of cheated. I had to send her picture messages of where I was to prove I wasn't lying. She made me cut of all my friends (thank God they forgave me) I didn't go to the race track not once when I was with her, because other women would be there. I did so much for her. I helped build her confidence up. I truly worked my butt off for her and to make her happy. I made sure she was happy before I was. And how did she repay me. She left for another guy. I'm sorry but I say screw her. Good Riddance. My life has been going uphill ever since I've gotten over her. I don't even want for another GF for a year or two.....or three. They've all been bad experiences. There a good women in the world but, they must not be in Maryland lol Link to comment
atlanticstar Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 This is awesome news! I'm really pleased for you. You made me smile that you laughed in her face. How sweet that is! I don't need to ask how good that felt! I know I'll get my turn soon enough when my ex realises the grass isn't greener. I think I'm going to do the same as you and laugh in her face! Link to comment
PJPaul Posted January 15, 2009 Author Share Posted January 15, 2009 This is awesome news! I'm really pleased for you. You made me smile that you laughed in her face. How sweet that is! I don't need to ask how good that felt! I know I'll get my turn soon enough when my ex realises the grass isn't greener. I think I'm going to do the same as you and laugh in her face! In due time my good friend. As soon as you move on she'll call watch lol Link to comment
gee Posted January 15, 2009 Share Posted January 15, 2009 PJ, Good stuff bro! Glad to see you smile man. I know you were down some time back. Yeah, you are def better off...poof be gone! Now, get ready man because good things are coming your way! Peace! gee Link to comment
PJPaul Posted January 17, 2009 Author Share Posted January 17, 2009 Yeah was sad for a while its all in the healing process. I'm lots better now Link to comment
ladybug726 Posted January 17, 2009 Share Posted January 17, 2009 It's not just girls. It does feel SO GOOD, doesn't it?? Karma! Link to comment
PJPaul Posted January 18, 2009 Author Share Posted January 18, 2009 It's not just girls. It does feel SO GOOD, doesn't it?? Karma! Oh i know its not just girls! Guys act stupid too. Its just a never ending cycle. Guy treats gurl bad, she bitter and treats her bf like crap, he gets bitter and treats his next gf like crap, and so on and so on. That's why I'm staying single for like a year or to so i can completely get over this without making the next women I date pay for it Link to comment
atlanticstar Posted January 18, 2009 Share Posted January 18, 2009 Its just a never ending cycle. Guy treats gurl bad, she bitter and treats her bf like crap, he gets bitter and treats his next gf like crap, and so on and so on. Completely agree. In fact I was having this conversation with someone a few months ago in the pub. It's like one big merry-go-round with everyone cr*pping on each other. Quite sad really. Link to comment
PJPaul Posted January 18, 2009 Author Share Posted January 18, 2009 It is very sad, but there's nothing I can do about it but try to be the best man I can be Link to comment
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