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John14087

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Hi All! Just need a lil advice. Alright, so theres this girl at the gym that ive noticed more and more. I think shes single because the only guys she comes in with look like her uncles or something. Problem im having is, how do i approach her and initiate a conversation without seeming, i dunno, werid and stalkerish?

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start by one day smiling and saying hello, nothing more. Then everytime you see her say hello, so that she starts to recognise you and feel like she knows you. Then when you've established that it wouldn't be weird to start a conversation and say 'how are you?' or whatever. Then every time you can talk to her for longer.

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Your going to need an "ice breaker", something that the both of you can relate to or have a commonality with. Notice for example, what exercises she does and if you can say something about one of them (without trying to help her with it or teaching her how to do it) like you have been doing it for years and it has helped you. Spark interest right away or it's lost. Just a hi will not work. The curtain, the window, will open for just a few seconds for you to go to stranger from a non-person. You can have a game plan but its best to be spontaneous so you don't come accross as a PUA.

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