mcchops380 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 I met a girl Saturday at a local pub. She asked me to go with her and her friend to another establishment. I went with them. She gave all the signals that she was into me. Touching me, eye contact, and what not. Sent her a text message the next day and we exchanged messages throughout the day. I asked her if she would like to hang out this week sometime via a text and she said "Yeah!" but would be closer to the end of the week because she was busy. All her text messages make me think this chick is really into me saying things like How it was no accident she ran into me that night, asking me questions about myself and what I like and everything. Saying that we have to hang out soon because she is interested because I am funny, good looking, personable and she likes that. Talk to her on the phone for a few minutes last but she was kind of busy so I let her go. So today I sent her a message asking if we were going to hang out today or tomorrow and she responds with she isn't sure if either day will work because she is so so busy this week with a presentation she has and some new job committee she joined. I straight up asked her if she just really didn't want to hang out because I dont want to be that guy that cant take a hint but she told me Sorry, she is just real busy and that we will talk soon. Remember she told me that she was interested and wanted to hang out. I mean I am not too too worried if we don't do anything. I don't know her enough to let it really bother me but it is just confusing as heck. Any insight would be great Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 did you leave it open to her? you should have told her to get in contact with you when she has free time to get together. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 maybe she is playing a little hard to get... make you work for it... because as you know women dont play games.... Link to comment
mcchops380 Posted January 14, 2009 Author Share Posted January 14, 2009 I told her to call me today or tomorrow if she has free time and if not I would contact her on Sunday to try and set something up. I mean if this girl was just not showing must interest then whatever but just all of the things she said like I mentioned earlier just confused the s*&t out of me. God love women. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 why did you tell her to call you and if not you would call her later? she's more than likely not going to call cause you left her an 'out'. you allowed her to escape the interest and force you to call her. i know that sounds crazy, but that is your fault. next time tell her to call you and that is it. Link to comment
mcchops380 Posted January 14, 2009 Author Share Posted January 14, 2009 If thats the case and she is playing hard to get then she just opened up a can of worms in regards to game playing. 2 can play at this game. lol Link to comment
mcchops380 Posted January 14, 2009 Author Share Posted January 14, 2009 I know what your saying ghost and while I was writing that text message I wondered the same thing myself but went ahead and said it oh well. We will just see what happens. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 why did you tell her to call you and if not you would call her later? she's more than likely not going to call cause you left her an 'out'. you allowed her to escape the interest and force you to call her. i know that sounds crazy, but that is your fault. next time tell her to call you and that is it. right on... why would she call. you said you would. so she is gonna take that option and wait for you to call.. to see your intrest. If thats the case and she is playing hard to get then she just opened up a can of worms in regards to game playing. 2 can play at this game. lol they almost all play hard to get, well some of the good ones... you have to be direct and nice with them... plus you kind of floped with you saying call me... i would of just said alright well if i get a chance i will give you a call over the weekend... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 14, 2009 Share Posted January 14, 2009 If the girl is interested then she may be busy but she will make time even if it is for a short time to get some coffee or whatever else. She may be interested in your but not enough to make or even have time to hang out. I think you need chalk what she said about you and being interested in you as just being a part of her personality. I am not saying that you should completely drop this girl but you definitely dont need to make her a priority since she isnt giving you that consideration back. Link to comment
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