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The ex drove past and just beeped while i was at the front.....


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I was just at the front when i heard a car beep 3 times. I looked up and around and couldnt see anyone in front of my place so i went closer to the gate and looked down the end of the street and it was his car alright. He had his hand hanging out of the car window waving. He was driving SUPER fast as well.

 

 

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why the sad face?

 

you must be happy he is attempting contact?

 

It just hurts to see him. And i would've though after all this time he would approach contacting me in a different way. This isnt the first time he has tried "contacting" me by driving past and beeping. Only the other times i wasnt at the front.

 

Ahhhhhh i am in my bed clothes as well as i am getting ready to go to bed shortly LOL

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that's sad.... sounds like he is toying with you

 

Write him an email and tell him to buzz off...

 

I am sick of alll the mucking around. I am seriously ready to talk to him if he would just initiate contact in a more appropriate/mature way.

He doesnt have an email address.

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I am sick of men, im sick of being heartbroken. I think that you shouldnt do anything until he makes a valid and crystal clear effort to contact you

 

I am feeling the same way and dont worry he has to work a LOT harder at trying to make contact with me if he wants me to talk....

 

No way am i giving in to his childish games with driving past.

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It sounds like he isnt going to man up though

 

No unfortunately it doesnt look like it. 4 months on you'd think he would've learnt something.

I guess he just thinks i will come running back to me him or he is that good that if i just see or hear him passing by my place it will be enough to get me calling him.

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No unfortunately it doesnt look like it. 4 months on you'd think he would've learnt something.

I guess he just thinks i will come running back to me him or he is that good that if i just see or hear him passing by my place it will be enough to get me calling him.

 

Well, i don't know him, but playing devil's advocate perhaps he has learned a lot and just doens't think coming back would be good for either of you. If i am not mistaken you broke up with him. Maybe he moved on?

 

I can't really say i understand why the driving by and beeping is being labeled as petty and childish and all the other things i am hearing. many people when driving by the house of someone they know beep. It is kind of a 'hello' and 'bye' kind of thing. Since you broke up with him, perhaps he ISN"T being petty, but still does not want to get back together, and just beeps as a hello and habit kind of thing? My ex was the type of person who habitually honked the horn whenever he drove past the house of someone he knew....some people just do that.

 

Why is it that if he does not contact you, you continue to think he is being childish ? If you broke up, why would he ? If he broke up, why would he? Why is it that if he doesn't contact you because you want him to, he is being petty? That is what i am trying to figure out from these responses. Driving by a house and beeping a horn isn't really a bad thing for many people. Maybe he is not analyzing this action as much as everyone else because he didn't think it was a big deal?

 

Truth is, if you are the one who wants to reunite this badly as your threads suggest, the only thing you CAN do is contact him and see if he even remotely wants to consider it. Maybe he doesn't, or maybe he would entertain it. I don't know. But if he was bad for you, I don't advise contacting him and I also don't advise getting angry that he isn't contacting you.

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