got myself into a sticky situation with two people

[knightNshiningarmor]

OK so randomly met a girl at a nice chill kick back with my church people got her number been real flirty, randomly bumped into her at work and she refused to let me leave and keeps persisting we go out and I really like her and she is obviously into me. And well couple days ago my ex who is now in my neighborhood gave me a ring saying she heard i moved near by and wanted to hang out well we ended up doing more then that and have had sex the last couple days and this is an ex that i cant come to terms with where i stand and so here we are really hot and heavy but at the same time i know the past dictates that it will end up like it has before, in heartbreak.

 

THE PICKLE is that my ex and this new girl are in the same circle of friends its like starting a new relationship with 2 people at the same exact time although there is a past history with my ex but who knows maybe shes changed maybe i have but in a normal situation i would be fine in seeing both girls at least long enough to know if i have strong feelings for one or the other but i havent had that chance and i feel it might blow up in my face before i get that chance....so i guess it comes down to this...i break it off with my ex which would mean me really putting my foot in my mouth because of the things ive said in the last few days to her...or i tell this new girl that it needs to be strictly platonic as im getting back with my ex who is oh btw one of your friends. or do i ride this out a little longer so my decision can be made with a little more clarity.

[wurth_skidder]

Break it off with both. Nothing good can come of this in either scenario.

[HeartGoesOn]

This is a little confusing, or maybe I'm reading this wrong. Are you trying to get back with your "ex", or not?

 

If not, I have a feeling that this will all blow up in your face, and it will happen very soon.

[wurth_skidder]

He's flirting with one girl, and he's kinda fooling around with his ex and pondering starting things up with her again. The two girls know each other. Bad news unless he cuts out with both, in my opinion.

[lostandhurt]

Take a break from both. You are to close to see clearly. You may be just a booty call to your ex so you need to try and see it for what it is. If you really know (not wish) that she has changed it might be different. The new girl is a fresh start and might be a good thing while the ex will more than likely bring you heartbreak as before.

Either way you certainly won't be able to think clearly if you are trying to juggle them both.

Think of it this way: If the new girl wasn't in the picture would you try again with the ex?

And also: If the ex wasn't in the picture would you pursue a relationship with the new girl?

 

good luck

 

lost

[knightNshiningarmor]

Take a break from both. You are to close to see clearly. You may be just a booty call to your ex so you need to try and see it for what it is. If you really know (not wish) that she has changed it might be different. The new girl is a fresh start and might be a good thing while the ex will more than likely bring you heartbreak as before.

Either way you certainly won't be able to think clearly if you are trying to juggle them both.

Think of it this way: If the new girl wasn't in the picture would you try again with the ex?

And also: If the ex wasn't in the picture would you pursue a relationship with the new girl?

 

good luck

 

lost

 

lol ya found out last night i had been basically just a booty call with the ex...which as a guy really gives you a mix of emotion..lol...a would have liked there to have been something more substantial but at the same time...her subtlties about the sex was a confidence boost none the less...so ya i decided that i am completely severing ties with the ex and going to let some time pass before i hit on the other girl if and when i decide to.