gigglyfreedom Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Hi... recently ive been hearing that crazy/nutty women are irresistably sexy... or they are seen as that...that craziness in women has a certain allure... what do you think of this? do you find craziness in women attractive? (if you are a man or lesbian?) anyone who is not a man or lesbian can also answer this question! any opinions, views or anything on this would be cool! Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Oh yea...the excitement. I tell you what though...I've had enough of crazy women. I'm into stability. Link to comment
DN Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Define crazy or nutty. Goldie Hawn - definitely attractive. Lizzie Borden - not so much. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 define crazy or nutty. Goldie hawn - definitely attractive. Lizzie borden - not so much. lol............... Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Define crazy or nutty. Goldie Hawn - definitely attractive. Lizzie Borden - not so much. LMAO. Good analogy. I think some guys are attracted to "crazy or unstable" women because it adds a degree of excitement to their otherwise boring lives. I think guys who are attracted to these kinds of women tend to have "savior" complexes though and think they can reform them or settle them down. Most sane guys want nothing to do with the crazies though...lol Link to comment
Raize Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 A few years ago I had a crush on this sweet bubbly personality girl that got a job at where I worked. She ended up having a crush on my workmate who liked Her as a friend and nothing more. They would go out clubbing and stuff together, but I started finding out from other people including Him that She was going a bit off the wall and acting all Emo because He wasn't returning the interest in Her. She even started doing things like Stalking Him to the casino just because She knew He'd be there that night with His Family. So there She'd be, rocking up drunk and just embarrassing Him in front of his family. Then there was the self-harm... Anyways, even when I found out this dark side to this nice, cute happy-go-lucky girl, I couldn't help but still be attracted to Her for a while there. I guess there was that silly rationale that She needed someone in Her life to make Her happy again and I wanted to be that one. Probably a good thing for me She liked me as a friend and nothing more. - Saved me from potentially dealing with a lot of grief! Eventually I just got over Her. For all Her flaws it didn't change the fact She's an awesome Girl and fun to be around.... She just had some serious issues and weird mood swings, especially, but not always when drunk. Link to comment
midnightrambler Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Hi... recently ive been hearing that crazy/nutty women are irresistably sexy... or they are seen as that...that craziness in women has a certain allure... what do you think of this? do you find craziness in women attractive? (if you are a man or lesbian?) anyone who is not a man or lesbian can also answer this question! any opinions, views or anything on this would be cool! in Lindsay Lohan...sure. I my life ...no way Link to comment
shes2smart Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 LMAO. Good analogy. I think some guys are attracted to "crazy or unstable" women because it adds a degree of excitement to their otherwise boring lives. I think guys who are attracted to these kinds of women tend to have "savior" complexes though and think they can reform them or settle them down. Most sane guys want nothing to do with the crazies though...lol Then it's simply the flip side of the female who is attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy." Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Then it's simply the flip side of the female who is attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy." I think you're right. Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Then it's simply the flip side of the female who is attracted to the stereotypical "bad boy." Very true, very true!!!! I'm guilty of this!!!!! lol Link to comment
riley123 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 No crazies for me thank you. I prefer interesting women -- not someone who thrives on constant (usually self-inflicted drama) or someone who might cut your member off in the middle of the night. Link to comment
Portage Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Define crazy or nutty. Goldie Hawn - definitely attractive. Lizzie Borden - not so much. you can go for a weekend getaway (B&B) at Lizzie's home, but the wait is up to one year. (i'm reserving) Just some interesting but useless info... Crazy is bad...Cute and nice is in. Stability rules. Link to comment
Sweet Venus Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 No crazies for me thank you. I prefer interesting women -- not someone who thrives on constant (usually self-inflicted drama) or someone who might cut your member off in the middle of the night. LMAO!!!! Link to comment
Tethys Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I think some people are attracted to drama and turbulence at some point in their lives. Then they get over it. So, yes, women get over the "bad boys" and men get over the "crazy girls." That's my best guess! Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Crazy girls can be "Bad girls" too. I'm guilty of messing around in that area. It's a high price to pay. Link to comment
Balbina Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I think some people are attracted to drama and turbulence at some point in their lives. Then they get over it. So, yes, women get over the "bad boys" and men get over the "crazy girls." That's my best guess! I completely agree with you!! When I see all the drama cause by some girls - my sister for example, who is the type of girl to keep crawling back to the guy after he'd spit in her face... Frankly, the guys who like crazy girls are usually the ones who are messed up. The Knight-in-Armour syndrome gone completely wrong. Link to comment
Catdancer Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Hey!! I resemble that remark! Jetti, I'm with you. I need someone to challenge me and surprise me. I'm wacked in the head and I need someone just as "wacked" as I am to balance me. I've dated men who are stable, monotonous and boring as hell. It drives me batty (or should I say battier?) lol. I need the constant stimulation of someone who isnt going to agree with everything I say, who isnt going to go along for the ride or just blend into the background. That's not the person for me. Link to comment
Balbina Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Hey!! I resemble that remark! resemble or resent?? If someone is emotionally unstable, they usually look for that instability in a partner. I personally think its unhealthy but inevitable because some people will never learn. My boyfriend is the most exciting person I know - we've traveled around Europe together, go out to see new things all the time, love to learn and try new things, he's funny and charming, opinionated and extremely intelligent... he's all the things I want in a partner, and he happens to be very level-headed, down-to-earth and logical in his problem-solving. Just because a person doesn't give in to unnecessary and pointless power-struggle drama, doesn't make them dull or boring. My sister for example, always needs to be in the middle of the latest gossip, involved in every fight or situation and is always acting angry, defensive, pissed off to provoke the guy she is with because she thrives off the drama. She would never be happy without it - or rather, she'd never be miserably happy without it. Link to comment
Tethys Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I completely agree with you!! When I see all the drama cause by some girls - my sister for example, who is the type of girl to keep crawling back to the guy after he'd spit in her face... Frankly, the guys who like crazy girls are usually the ones who are messed up. The Knight-in-Armour syndrome gone completely wrong. I've seen it too, in both sexes, many times over. Eventually, they learn, lol. Link to comment
Balbina Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I've seen it too, in both sexes, many times over. Eventually, they learn, lol. Not always, believe me. Crazies attract craziness because they can't live without it. Link to comment
Tethys Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Well, if one partner is somewhat sane (I should have clarified that) then they get over it! Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Well, if one partner is somewhat sane (I should have clarified that) then they get over it! You mean I'm ACTUALLY SANE??? Link to comment
Tethys Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Mutley, most likely, yes. Link to comment
Mutley Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Mutley, most likely, yes. Thank you very much...that makes my day!! Link to comment
rbr85 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I'd rather spend time with a crazy than a girl who sits there like a stump with no personality. Link to comment
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