Sweet Venus Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 Regardless of how long you have been together, or dating....what makes you miss and desire to just want to BE with someone???? Are there "triggers"?? I want to install one in my mans house!!!! LOL Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 There isn't just one thing that will make you miss someone. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 A variety of things or.... nothing. It can just come over me, or it could be a story I wish I could share with him right then, or it could be he just walked out the door to go out of town and it hits me. When I wanted to trigger that in someone else, I gave him more space. That can work. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 -When I catch a guy with a similar scent (my bf has a distinct scent) -When I smell chlorine (was a swimmer all of high school) -When I see his picture (I have 2 photos of him in my room. One is a pic of both of us from X-mas and another is his senior picture) -When I use any of the things he got me -When someone says one of his words (exasporated, belligerent, rather are all words that he is prone to say) -When I watch certain movies we have seen together Link to comment
simply complicated Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 You start to think of all the good things that you had together once that person is gone, then once a little time goes by, you begin to miss those good times and realize that they will probably never happen with that person again. It all comes down to routine, once that routine is broken and changed into nothing, you begin to miss it. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 You start to think of all the good things that you had together once that person is gone, then once a little time goes by, you begin to miss those good times and realize that they will probably never happen with that person again. It all comes down to routine, once that routine is broken and changed into nothing, you begin to miss it. I think she is talking about being away from your partner. Not a breakup. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 I don`t think there`s a specific something that triggers everyone. For most people, it`s a specific something that is unique to the person they miss. A smell, a sound, a situation, a place, a time, etc. Link to comment
greywolf Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 When something happens during your day that you really want to tell them about. Smells are big triggers. Boredom can make you miss them. There's a lot of things. Are there "triggers"?? I want to install one in my mans house!!!! LOL Are you guys in an ldr? That's torture. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 13, 2009 Share Posted January 13, 2009 usually just their presense not being there. Link to comment
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