Blind "Date"

[aldridal]

So, a friend is trying to set me and this girl up, because she thinks we'd be a "cute" couple. So, to make a long story short, this girl and I chatted for a little bit, and I asked her if she'd like to go for coffee sometime. We decided on tomorrow evening.

 

I guess I need some tips here, since it's a been a while for me. How do I go about asking her out again (assuming things go well)? I don't yet have her number, so any good tips on how to ask her? I'm trying to go into this with no expectations and just as a casual thing, but like I said, it's been a while for me and I'm afraid of messing things up. I also haven't completely decided if this is actually a date, or just two people going out for coffee. This is my first blind date type of deal.

 

Suggestions are appreciated!

[huskiesfan]

Here's a good suggestion. If you two seem to hit it off and you have a good time and are interested in making a date in the future, just casually say to her, "I had a good time tonight. I'd love to do it again sometime soon." That way, your not outright saying "can I have your number", or "I wanna date you".

[aldridal]

Here's a good suggestion. If you two seem to hit it off and you have a good time and are interested in making a date in the future, just casually say to her, "I had a good time tonight. I'd love to do it again sometime soon." That way, your not outright saying "can I have your number", or "I wanna date you".

 

Haha, good point. I wasn't planning on saying either of those last to, for what it's worth.

 

I like that, simple, yet straight forward.

[Daligal83]

I think that's a great way to go about it. And if she says yes, say "Can I have your number so I can give you a call?"

[huskiesfan]

Haha, good point. I wasn't planning on saying either of those last to, for what it's worth.

 

I like that, simple, yet straight forward.

 

Haha, I know you wouldn't do that, but you don't have to say them to give off that kind of effect. Yep, light, and simple does the trick.

[ghost69]

how did you chat for a bit without having her number?

[Scorpion Fury]

How about "What's your number?" if she's agreed to meet you tomorrow night, I don't see why she'd have a problem giving it to you.

 

Don't jump the gun on a second date yet, make sure this one goes well. It's a blind date, anything could happen. If you guys click and you get a good vibe just throw it out there, "This is fun, we should do this again." if she gladly accepts, call her in the coming days to set something up.