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OK, I'm the dumpee, it's been over a month NC, and she finds out I've got a new job starting this week.


She sends me a text saying congratulations, hope it works out for me.


I'm still teetering on going complete NC, and just not replying, but part of me says I don't want to be rude.


What do people think about staying NC as far as not reaching out to them, but still replying to their friendly texts?

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Thanks for all your help guys. I've been leaning more towards replying to her, because I don't want to come off as a jerk, or being so weak from the breakup that I can't even respond to her. On the other hand, I don't want to seem like an eager puppy begging for scraps.


Also I didn't know if replying would be counteractive to letting her miss me (I know, I know, NC is for me).


Maybe I'll send a quick message "Thanks. I'm excited!" No rush, though. I will think it through a bit more before I do anything.

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