Confused!?

[DrewLaCross]

When I was a teen I had a friend who was really more than that to me. On multiple occasions he came to my "rescue" and always took care of me. Our families were very close then and we moved accross the country to be with them. I have not seen him in 13 years and I cannot stop thinking about him! This has been going on for a while now and relly feel I need to find him. My problem is that I have moved back to our hometown that is 1200 miles away. I have put an ad on another site and have looked into all the people search sites with no luck. No current numbers! I am starting to miss him so much it hurts and don't know if this is even the right thing! I am married to a wonderful guy but this is taking over my life! Any advice would be appreciated on this, please!!!!

[alli]

I think you should stop looking for him. He was a great person in your past, but that is it: your past. You are married & this is taking over your life? That is not healthy. You've been ok without him all this time & you will continue to be ok with your husband.

[DrewLaCross]

I think you should stop looking for him. He was a great person in your past, but that is it: your past. You are married & this is taking over your life? That is not healthy. You've been ok without him all this time & you will continue to be ok with your husband.

 

Taking over my life is a bit extreme! That's not what I meant though really. I just feel a bit incomplete. I guess I can't really convey how I really feel. It isn't an "unhealthy" situation, at least I don't believe. Thanks for your reply!