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start hating yourself or parts of yourself?

 

lose the confidence you once had in yourself?

 

look at yourself in the mirror and think "no one will ever love me again"

 

realize you lost your self-esteem?

 

become afraid that you will live and die alone?

 

feel so alone?

 

these are ALL things that I've been feeling for a few months now and I'm just so incredibly scared

 

I feel lost

I feel ugly

I feel low

I feel stupid

I feel stupid for feeling all these things

I feel stupid for even posting this but it's the only place I can

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Yeah, my self esteem is pretty low right now. But I know I'll fall in love again. I hope anyway. Guess I'm not so sure...

 

You're not alone, all of us here are suffering over our stupid exes.

 

Remember your feelings are just that... feelings. They aren't reality.

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start hating yourself or parts of yourself?

 

lose the confidence you once had in yourself?

 

look at yourself in the mirror and think "no one will ever love me again"

 

realize you lost your self-esteem?

 

become afraid that you will live and die alone?

 

feel so alone?

 

these are ALL things that I've been feeling for a few months now and I'm just so incredibly scared

 

I feel lost

I feel ugly

I feel low

I feel stupid

I feel stupid for feeling all these things

I feel stupid for even posting this but it's the only place I can

 

Yes to all of the above. I feel at times like I am doomed to be alone for the rest of my life, even though I have people flirting with me. I feel stupid, even though I am about to graduate from College with a good degree. I feel ugly though I know I am not. Most of all I feel low. I cry, a lot and I am a guy. I dont think we are any of these things shy, it is just the shock of losing something that was a big part of our lives. Each day we will feel a little better about ourselves. I have been through breakup before and I met this last girl, who I thought was the one but obviously wasn't. The one is still out there, wondering where we have been all this time and we will get there soon. Hang in there.

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oh, yes, i have felt all of those things as well.

 

i think a breakup puts you in a state where everything feels and looks wrong for awhile.

 

the day i left my husband of ten years due to his infidelity, the sky was the most gorgeous blue and i remember feeling so mad that it was a beautiful day when i felt in such darkness.

 

stuff you never thought about becomes suddenly incredibly painful. i couldn't listen to music. the amount of crying i was doing actually scared me. i avoided the grocery store because i would actually get furious with the happy couples i saw shopping. i thought i would never be able to laugh again.

 

when you are this sad, everything seems wrong.

 

i'm so sorry you have to go through this..... take good care of yourself right now.

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Hi!

 

I understand how you are feeling and wish I could take away your pain.

 

I think the feelings we have when we lose the person we loved so much are every conceivable emotion known.

 

We have to tell ourselves that we did everything we could to make them happy but alas it was not enough in the end. The fault is theirs and theirs alone. The burden must also be theirs.

 

Please try to be brave and remember you are not alone.

 

((hugs)) sent your way along with some strength..

 

Tina x x

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Hi shy,

 

You're not alone. And I'm also one of you who felt everything you pointed out. It sucks, but I kept telling myself...that since I did attract my ex before, it just shows that I might just have another chance at love again.

 

So, you will be in love again...with a better partner. Once you are up and ready for the world, you're on your way to show how attractive you'll be.

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start hating yourself or parts of yourself?

- YUP

 

lose the confidence you once had in yourself?

- What Confidence?

 

look at yourself in the mirror and think "no one will ever love me again"

- I no longer look in the mirror!

 

realize you lost your self-esteem?

- Tick this box off too!

 

become afraid that you will live and die alone?

- Nope, just without her.

 

feel so alone?

- Nahhh - got plenty of friends, just not my soul mate!

 

these are ALL things that I've been feeling for a few months now and I'm just so incredibly scared

 

I feel lost

- mmmm hmmmmm

 

I feel ugly

- yup

 

I feel low

- ditto

 

I feel stupid

- gotcha

 

I feel stupid for feeling all these things

- hahahahahaha - yeah!

 

I feel stupid for even posting this but it's the only place I can.

- nope. I don't feel stupid for posting anything here......... i'm not affraid of being an idiot, mainly cause i just don't care what people think of me. I am low, i have hit rock-bottom............ but you get to know who your true friends are in times like these. If poeple CAN'T understand why i'm an emmotional wreck, then they never understood the person i was.

 

But i wont ever feel bad,.......EVER.........for being the person that i am!

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