iusman Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Do you ever stop loving somebody that you truly love? They say it takes half the time you were with the person to get over them but i feel like i will never get over her because i know i truly love her for all her flaws and everything, i cant picture myself with anybody else and cant stop hurting its been 6 months and 2 with NC. Link to comment
mr_m4x Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Do you ever stop loving somebody that you truly love? They say it takes half the tie you were with the person to get over them but i feel like i will never get over her.... I feel the same. I spent 26 months with her and it's been 3 since we broke up and I'm pretty scared about thinking that this might still be with me until mid year or more... Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Yes you can. Love is more than a word it is a feeling we choose to accept. We can't control what our heart feels but our minds are there to be the reason. Once you accept that she is gone and will never be with you again then it gives you the chance to heal. You can love someone but not have that emotion control your life. In my case I still love the person she once was but despise who she has become. I do not live in the past or imagine some time when she will change back and we will be happily married again. That would be imagining a future I had no control over, which is something I will never do. Our understanding of our feelings should always be expanding. What we thought was true love at 18 is totally different than what we think at 25. Distance gives us the focus to see more clearly and I think as you move farther away you will find that some things were real and others not so real. lost Link to comment
beejcee Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 i am in the process of divorcing my husband of ten years. the reason for the divorce being infidelity at least three times..... i will always love the man he was when i married him but i can't live with the person i see as him now. so, yes, i think i will always have feelings for him..... i hope it doesn't take half the time we were together to get over him...... i can't take feeling so sad for five years.... yikes?!? Link to comment
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