SweetiePie05 Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 I have been dating this guy, we hang out every weekend. There has been some fishy stuff that's happened already, but we are not together so I can't get mad at it. Anywho, my ex knew of him a while back, they had a mutual friend so my ex and the guy I'm dating eventually became assoicates. After the ex left me for another girl, the guy and I started going out a lot and hanging out together, all seemed like magic. Until my ex found out. So my ex calls the guy I'm dating and I don't know what happened, but now the guy I'm dating doesn't talk to me anymore. And now my ex is giving me the "I"m so sorry, I love you, I miss you, I need you in my life" BS I'm just so confused and hurt by everything, I really don't know what to do with either guy. Any one have any insite? Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 how in the world did he get his number? Link to comment
SweetiePie05 Posted January 9, 2009 Author Share Posted January 9, 2009 how in the world did he get his number? They got eachother's number a few years back. My ex, the mutual friend, and the guy I'm dating would hang out every now and then because of the mutual friend. But they didn't really ever talk to eachother, just traded numbers. Link to comment
jettison Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Yeah, I've been sabotaged by other people in dating as well. It's not all that fun. The worst is when it's coming from a friend. Link to comment
jcrisph Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Might of game him the, oh thats my ex gf speech and if the guy didnt want any problems or drama, he might of just backed off. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 lame. I wouldn't bother with a guy that stopped talking to me with no explanation because my crazy ex got a hold of him Link to comment
george237 Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Then the new guy either doesn't think you are worth the drama or he's a wimp. Link to comment
SweetiePie05 Posted January 9, 2009 Author Share Posted January 9, 2009 lame. I wouldn't bother with a guy that stopped talking to me with no explanation because my crazy ex got a hold of him yeah, that's kinda what i was thinking. But it sucks at the same time, I was beginning to like him a lot lol. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 he could have told him anything. -you came over and you two slept together behind his back -you have hypogonosyphillaids -he threatened him -or the new guy just lost interest Link to comment
sunday13 Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 What person thinks that by sabotaging a relationship, he'll get you back? Yeah, I agree with ghost. Your ex could have told your new guy anything. At the same time, if I were dating a guy and his ex girlfriend called to say "by the way, I thought you should know _____," I would be suspicious and ask the guy I was dating for his side before ignoring him all together. The new guy didn't have the balls to approach you with whatever was said, and you need a guy who is more of a man than that! Link to comment
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