new year question

[julioiglesia]

what is the reason why people get into a relationship when all I read here is that once you break up you never hear from them again and become strangers.

 

it is a stupid question but i can't stop thinking about this question.

 

ex. if i hate * * * * ting, then why eat?

 

I think people need to be real and forget about the foreverever after fairy tale stuff when people get in a relationship and GEt real not be naive that everybody you date is a soul mate. I mean not everybody will get a soulmate.

 

Right now, i don't give sheet about it. Last relationship gave me too many headaches. gave too much emotionally and just i am so exhausted.

 

so why do people fall in love if things are going to break up.

[addictedblue]

Psh, that's like asking why bother playing a game of basketball because you might lose. I don't really know what you're asking. I think there's a difference between people being naive and people just being optimistic when dating someone.

[susiesad]

Because life is about taking chances. If we didn't take a chance, life would just stand still.

[kaoticbaby]

because it is not guaranteed that you WILL break up....despite your pessimistic attitude. and not only bad comes from having a relationship. yes, i don't talk to my ex anymore, but he taught me a lot and i wouldn't ever go back and change anything now.

[Captain Cool]

It's the difference between living and merely existing.

[Kevma]

As hurts as I am right now from my break up I know that as soon as I'm ready to go back to dating, I will full force. Its all about the journey not the destination.