What Do You do..

[Loki71]

When you can't have someone in your life but you can't have them out of your life either? How do you handle something like this? I am driving myself insane. I feel like I am falling faster and faster into a deep hole. If I don't have them in my life I go nuts I will sit and focus on it everyday till I snap. If they are in my life I wind up hurting myself and do things to push them away. I feel like my mind is about to just snap.

[TBE_1989]

One of the first thread I posted on this board was about this very issue.

 

Maybe some of the replies there will be helpful to you.

 

Can you give more details? Are you referring to a friend,a family member, a romantic partner?

[Loki71]

My issue is with my ex of 12yrs. I execpt the fact that it's over and I have started moving on. But everytime we try to be friends everything seems to go real good till we have lunch or something. Then something is said and I wind up with tears in my eyes. I can't shut her out of my life cause we have 2 kids. But I can't have her in my life cause It's not helping me to fully move on.