JaxIdea Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Hey Everyone. I'm not usually not one to go posting stuff on the internet but heres my story. I have been dating a great girl for almost 2 years now and we have regular sex maybe 2-4 times a week. I am a really sexual kind of guy and I get turned on really easily and I just love my sex. Anyway ever since we started having sex it just feels like she doesnt get into it as much as I do. I always make her orgasm at LEAST once by either going down on her or rubbing her clit and then again during sex. I do watch pornos now and then and I know this is dumb but I just feel like she doesnt move around much or do much more than lie there. This sounds really dumb but I just feel like I just move her into each position and tell her where to lay etc. I have talked to her about it before but its a pretty sensitive area for everyone. I know its a huge step from this but is there any girls out there that have ever had their bf ask them to cum in their mouth or anything of the sort? It's just a huge fantasy I guess and I would love to tell her one day. Just after ideas and feedback. Thanks guys! Link to comment
cyberdog Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I would find that a turn-off if she just lays there. I mean I like a girl just as much into it as I am. Actually every girl I've dated prefers to be on top and a few liked doggy as a second favorite, and maybe side-side or spooning positions as well. Link to comment
Tom_Bombadil Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Most women actually don't like it when a man cums in their mouth. I too would be kinda turned off by someone who just layed there like a log. I am of the opinion that both partners should do what they can-within reason-to please one another during sex. Be romantic and surprise her with some candles and rose petals on the sheets. Tell her you want to fufill her every fantasy. Or the next time you're going to do it, tell her that you want her to be in charge for a change. Link to comment
cyberdog Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Most women actually don't like it when a man cums in their mouth. I wouldn't like that either. I like to kiss even after sex and so I don't want that. I don't get it though, because I've never been with a woman who had problems with kissing after I did oral on her. I mean most didn't even have problem licking their own fingers to make themselves wet while masturbating. But there is no way I can kiss her after oral on me. Maybe a weird phobia or something but I just cant do that and I wouldn't be able to kiss her after ejaculating in her mouth either. Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Most women actually don't like it when a man cums in their mouth. I really don't see the problem. It isn't peachy and lovely but it's only fair (you can't really avoid getting anything in your mouth when you go down on a female) and it eliminates any mess issues. haha But there is no way I can kiss her after oral on me. Maybe a weird phobia or something but I just cant do that and I wouldn't be able to kiss her after ejaculating in her mouth either. Apparently a pretty common "phobia" from my knowledge. Get her to brush her teeth or have a drink after? Hey Everyone. I'm not usually not one to go posting stuff on the internet but heres my story. I have been dating a great girl for almost 2 years now and we have regular sex maybe 2-4 times a week. I am a really sexual kind of guy and I get turned on really easily and I just love my sex. Anyway ever since we started having sex it just feels like she doesnt get into it as much as I do. I always make her orgasm at LEAST once by either going down on her or rubbing her clit and then again during sex. I do watch pornos now and then and I know this is dumb but I just feel like she doesnt move around much or do much more than lie there. This sounds really dumb but I just feel like I just move her into each position and tell her where to lay etc. I have talked to her about it before but its a pretty sensitive area for everyone. I know its a huge step from this but is there any girls out there that have ever had their bf ask them to cum in their mouth or anything of the sort? It's just a huge fantasy I guess and I would love to tell her one day. Just after ideas and feedback. Thanks guys! Maybe she's enjoying it and everything, and experiencing it fully, but more inside her head? I don't know. You could talk to her about it, even though it might be awkward. That's the best way to get the answers you need. But porn is DEFINITELY sensationalized and exaggerated, you've got the right idea there. The fact that you're getting her off, especially more than once, is better than a lot of guys do! You could ask her if there are any positions she wants to try, or like you said, tell her it turns you on to have her in charge. It might help. Talking to her honestly about it though is probably your best bet - you've been together for a while, sharing your concerns and desires is part of being intimate with somebody. Link to comment
skittlesfae Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 Apparently a pretty common "phobia" from my knowledge. Get her to brush her teeth or have a drink after? Yeah... my first boyfriend didn't seem to be 'phobic' of it, but he would get a bit awkward about kissing me. [understandable, i guess, because I sometimes do...] But yeah, my second boyfriend, totally freaked. Couldn't even kiss his cheek til I washed my mouth. And he was totally rude about it to, was all like 'ew. that's disgusting, I just can't kiss you after that.' Well gee, but weren't you the one that did it, hot shot? lol. Even with mouthwash, still no kiss. Dunno bout my current though, because I have only done oral on him for a short time so far. =/ lol. Link to comment
Tom_Bombadil Posted January 9, 2009 Share Posted January 9, 2009 I really don't see the problem. It isn't peachy and lovely but it's only fair (you can't really avoid getting anything in your mouth when you go down on a female) and it eliminates any mess issues. haha I'd say you're one of the 10% who will allow it then. Not one of the women I've dated or my female friends with have allowed a man to do this. Link to comment
skittlesfae Posted January 10, 2009 Share Posted January 10, 2009 I'd say you're one of the 10% who will allow it then. Not one of the women I've dated or my female friends with have allowed a man to do this. Really... Wow. I always have, all 3 of the guys I've been with... The first one only did it a couple times, though.. Gah but the second one freakin tried to choke me with it, he was a complete * * * * * on so many levels. Buuut... That's that. [haven't got to that point with the current... But I wanna.] Yeah, it's something I actually want to do, and enjoy. Consider me weird I guess. o.O Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 I'd say you're one of the 10% who will allow it then. Not one of the women I've dated or my female friends with have allowed a man to do this. Wow is right, I really don't see a problem with it and it's just the natural thing to do in my opinion. Maybe you just coincidentally happen to know a lot of girls who don't like to swallow. Link to comment
babii doll Posted January 11, 2009 Share Posted January 11, 2009 Most women actually don't like it when a man cums in their mouth.. yeah i dont agree with that statement either, there are alot of women who do this, including myself.. maybe your just picking the ones who treat your sperm like acid. Link to comment
Tom_Bombadil Posted January 12, 2009 Share Posted January 12, 2009 yeah i dont agree with that statement either, there are alot of women who do this, including myself.. maybe your just picking the ones who treat your sperm like acid. Maybe so. Looks like I could benefit from drinking pineapple juice or something like that. Link to comment
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