BeachTotally Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 OK me and this girl have been dating for about 6 months, and just that dating she doesn't consider us a couple well for new years she tells me that she had sex with another guy she was drunk she says shes sorry but shes the type of girl where you can never get anything sincere from her basically shes a * * * * * . I always seem to be attracted to them anyways, So i was pissed about it although i am a nice guy and since we weren't officially a couple i kinda just ignored it i wanted to ignore it so i told her to call me the next day she doesnt so i call her around 2pm she doesnt call me back till 11pm that night so i say forget her and i ignore her for 3 days she calls me off the hook i dont know if this shows that she likes me more than i thought or if she just feels guilty for what she did i just need advice. Like i really like this girl she is a nympho and i feel like i wanna be that guy that just tells her to stick to one guy and changes her ways like pretty woman with julia roberts or whatever haha it is i wanna change her i dont know what to do tell me if she really likes me or if she just feels guilty i dont understand whats going through this girls head Link to comment
brahman Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Sounds like a depressed lady. You should talked to her ad find out if she really does care for you or if she doesn't. If she does then of course the story goes like this, "She has problems and screwed some other guy and felt guilty about it and had to tell you, and even in telling you she tells you that she is a * * * * * , and feels really bad and doesn't want to cheat on you again." To that I would say that she has to get some sort of actual counseling for you to stay with her. Of course it could go the other way and if so then sorry dude, she's gotta go. Link to comment
pace of ace Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Once again, ive found another thread which i can relate to a situation ive been in very recently. This girl has quite probably got self-esteem issues at best, something more sever like depression at worst. This kind of random sex thing, not calling you back for the whole day etc... always the same thing. She's sadly going to really hurt you if you dont back away.... take this from somone who has been in similar circumstances very recently. Link to comment
pace of ace Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 also, from experience, if she really liked you she'd make more of an effort to get with you properly. Sadly it seems she's just keeping you around close enough to make her feel good, attention, validation etc.. but will not commit to you. Life isnt like the movies my friend. I hope you work out what to do for yourself, not for her. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 just move on man. 6 months and she won't commit. how long will you wait? you obviously want a relationship. i'm afraid this girl will not give it to you. she's not that into you if she's bangin other dudes while seeing you. i don't care how drunk. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 you also need to stay away from girls who get drunk, nothing sexy about that Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 you also need to stay away from girls who get drunk, nothing sexy about that huh? Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 huh? why would any guy want to be with a girl who drinks to get DRUNK??? or maybe it's just me since I'm straight lace Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 why would any guy want to be with a girl who drinks to get DRUNK??? or maybe it's just me since I'm straight lace must be. i like girls that get drunk. i get drunk too. daily? no, not good and unattractive. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 must be. i like girls that get drunk. i get drunk too. daily? no, not good and unattractive. yeah since you are that type of guy and into that type of scene then i guess it works for you Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 yeah since you are that type of guy and into that type of scene then i guess it works for you nice work CD. i'm glad you realize that. it's not your thing, that's awesome. Link to comment
Scorpion Fury Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 why waste your time on someone for 6 months that won't be your gf and wants to get drunk and have sex with other guys and tell you about it? classy...yeah, you know better.... Link to comment
Nutz Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 There's nothing to debate. Dump her and don't look back. If you're really feeling bad about it have sex with a couple random women. You'll realize she's not the special snowflake you've built her up to be in your mind. Link to comment
BeachTotally Posted January 9, 2009 Author Share Posted January 9, 2009 Like its weird over the phone she can be such a * * * * * always wanting to do her own thing and ignore me but she usually is the one who calls me then in person shes like completley diffrent like we get along so well and we hardly ever fight when we do i dont take her * * * * but on the phone its hard not too. So i dont know what to do cause its like we live 40 min away so we usually spend a majority of the time on the phone and if its better in person its like im just so confused at this point on what to do i know i should just drop this girl but i would do that if she was the same as she is on the phone in person i know this girl is really a sweet girl she just has issues and i hate it ughhh Link to comment
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