lcgdia Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Heys guys I just wanted to update you about my breakup. I posted a few threads a this past week. Just to fill you in quickly incase you didn't get to read the past 2. My girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago. She said she doesn't have time to love me like I deserve right now. Her life is pretty hectic with things. She said I'm the most amazing person shes ever met and said she still loves me. Honestly there are NO Other problems. But I'm actually doing ok since the breakup and I think she realizes that. I asked if she needed space and she said no. We've talked everyday since for like 10 minutes. Most times not even talking about our breakup. Most of the time its great conversations and we have a lot of laughs. But today she had great news and was excited. Things are already starting to come together for her in such short time. I told her I'm very happy for her (Which I am) and she said "your soo amazing..." and she said she misses me. She actually wants to see me for lunch later this week and asked If i wanted to help her move. (Not far-about hour and a half). AND I WANT TO GET BACK TOGETHER! Im a very patient person though. So what do I have to do??? But could this be possibly happening soo soon?! OR IS it the total opposite? Link to comment
bluexin99 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 Since she wanted to break up, you shouldn't rush it with her. If you want her back/still love her and all, you should wait till she's ready again. In fact, wait patiently. If you rush things, she'll probably see you as being desperate... and that's a turn off. Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I think you should take things slowly right now. Just be there for her like you have been and don't push for anything. Link to comment
mariposa81 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I definitely agree with the other posters. She's the one who made this decision. Be very very patient with her, don't be overly anxious, and give her space as she needs it. Also, don't go into this with any expectations. Since it was nothing that you actually DID that caused her to break up with you, there's nothing that you can actually DO to make her want to be back with you before she's ready. Just keep being yourself...the guy she fell in love with in the first place...and see what happens. Good luck! Link to comment
lcgdia Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 Do you think I should see her then? Or do you think its too soon even though she wants to? Link to comment
pumpkinmoon Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 I think that if you want to see her then you should. Just keep it light and cool. Be friendly and just be yourself Link to comment
lcgdia Posted January 7, 2009 Author Share Posted January 7, 2009 OH I FORGOT to mention, that the night we broke up she said she can't have me wait for her. Does this mean pretty much that she doesn't want me hanging around feeling bad for myself waiting til she gets things together to get back together? OR does it mean something MUCH MUCH more? Link to comment
mariposa81 Posted January 7, 2009 Share Posted January 7, 2009 OH I FORGOT to mention, that the night we broke up she said she can't have me wait for her. Does this mean pretty much that she doesn't want me hanging around feeling bad for myself waiting til she gets things together to get back together? OR does it mean something MUCH MUCH more? It could just mean that since she doesn't know when she'll be ready to try again, that she doesn't want you to wait indefinitely. I don't think she wants you to put your life on hold waiting until she figures things out. And I agree that you shouldn't do that. Beyond that, I wouldn't read into it too much. Link to comment
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