Is this acceptable?

[pumpkinmoon]

Just want to get some views and opinions on this.

 

Is it acceptable for a boyfriend to talk about/discuss the sexual aspect of his relationship with his friends?

 

I just think that it is very disrespectful to the girl.

 

Any opinions would be appreciated.

[agent1607307371]

It depends on the couple and their attitudes to discussing sex.

[ghost69]

depends on the 2 people. obviously it bothers you.

[pumpkinmoon]

Well yeah I will admit that it is not something I think needs to be discussed with friends. The odd thing yes, but not details really.

[pumpkinmoon]

Also I will point out that I am not currently in a relationship with my ex, but I know he has done this in the past.

[ghost69]

if you don't like it you have to bring it up. if it continues you will then have to decide how to proceed with the person.

[civilservant]

I personally wouldn't have a problem with it, and even if I did aren't neive enough to think it wouldn't happen anyway...

[Blanco Nino]

I've read in many places that women are much more likely to talk about sex with their friends as opposed to men. And they go into much greater detail when they do.

 

The only times my male friends talk about sex with their GF's is to complain about not getting enough or having to do it too much. Sex drive type stuff. No personal details whatsoever.

[xCOREx]

 

The only times my male friends talk about sex with their GF's is to complain about not getting enough or having to do it too much. Sex drive type stuff. No personal details whatsoever.

 

 

my experience as well.

[pumpkinmoon]

Well it certainly isn't/wasn't because he is not getting enough. It's kinda like he will let his friends know when he "got it" and what actually happened, details included.

[xCOREx]

then that said i think its inappropriate if you dont care for it. but with that said maybe he needs to think about why he needs to tell his friends this stuff. theres obviously an emotional issue sprouting this action.

[Rose21]

Well I think its very disrespectful too.

 

I would be mad if my boyfriend did it, but of course he wouldn't.

 

I sometimes do with a few close friends, but when girls talk about sexual things about their relationships it's totaly different then a guy howling about it with their friends. Totaly different perspective.

[xCOREx]

well depends how the girls talk and guys howl. i think its different for every couple. and it requires both to be very honest and open but thats what it requires for any kind of relationship. imo at least.

[laisla]

Well yeah I will admit that it is not something I think needs to be discussed with friends. The odd thing yes, but not details really.

 

I've read in many places that women are much more likely to talk about sex with their friends as opposed to men. And they go into much greater detail when they do.

 

The only times my male friends talk about sex with their GF's is to complain about not getting enough or having to do it too much. Sex drive type stuff. No personal details whatsoever.

 

i agree with these 2 posts. i've talked about a few moves with a friend of mine (who is also in a relationship), and when i lost my virginity i told my best friend at the time. other than ENA people, i don't discuss it with friends at all.

[pumpkinmoon]

I also think it is disrespectful. I could understand if the relationship was a casual one but not long term relationships where feelings are probably involved. It's not even as if they are talking about it to get advice, it just seems to be like general chit chat/bragging. I don't think it is right at all.

[pumpkinmoon]

He doesn't know that I know yet. Not sure about how to bring it up. I am sure that he won't be able to see my point about it which could cause some bother. Also, even if he does seem to understand and tells me that he will stop doing it, I bet he still will behind anyway and I will have no way of knowing.

[confused25]

I've read in many places that women are much more likely to talk about sex with their friends as opposed to men. And they go into much greater detail when they do.

 

The only times my male friends talk about sex with their GF's is to complain about not getting enough or having to do it too much. Sex drive type stuff. No personal details whatsoever.

 

Yeah I've heard that as well.

 

With my girlfriends and I, we always talk about our sexual relationships with our boyfriends/husbands. We never say anything bad or embarrassing though. Usually we only bring up the good stuff I don't think I would mind my bf talking about it with his buddies unless it was something bad lol.

[Rose21]

Yes true. When I talk bout sex with my friends, its always how amazing it is and special.

 

While guys either complain or say things that are degrading.

[babeebugs]

My partner has mentioned our sex life to his friends before, and sometimes i have found it slightly embarrassing... But the things he has told them are all Good/Positive things. At first i was dissappointed with him...but i have talked to my friends regarding the good bits e.t.c So Its only Fair in that respect.

He has also shown his very close friend naked pictures of me, Now that! Is deffo something else and believe me he wont be doing that again lol.

 

Leanne

[Rose21]

Naked pictures? OH hell no!!

 

My boyfriend would NEVER do that, he wouldn't want his friends to see his naked girlfriend. I'm HIS.

 

And lets just say that if that was something he would do (which it isnt) there would be a HUGE argument.

[babeebugs]

Naked pictures? OH hell no!!

 

My boyfriend would NEVER do that, he wouldn't want his friends to see his naked girlfriend. I'm HIS.

 

And lets just say that if that was something he would do (which it isnt) there would be a HUGE argument.

 

 

Best bit was, my bf and his close mate more or less compared me and his mates gf!!! Very charming!... I cant explain how angry and upset i was... Ive removed all naked pics and no way am i giving him anymore!

[Rose21]

Here's what you should do:

 

BREAK UP WITH THE ASS HOLE=)