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He said he will call on the day and doesn't, would you be angry?

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I know this seems pretty childish but i just can't seem to get my head around it.

 

We're uni friends, currently on holidays atm. Before he went overseas (around 2 weeks ago), he confessed his feelings and asked me out on msn. I told him i'll give him a response when i see him in person. He told me he will call me on the day he comes back so we can arrange a going out day, most probably be the day after his return. He said he will call but he didn't call.

 

If he knew he wasn't going to call, then he shouldn't have said that. Plus, if he wasn't interested, then he wouldn't have said that either. I understand that he might be tired after a long trip, but he should have text me or something to let me know he's still alive. >.

 

Any thoughts?

 

Thanks

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Before he went overseas (around 2 weeks ago), he confessed his feelings and asked me out on msn. I told him i'll give him a response when i see him in person.

 

If someone would not give a response until meeting up face-to-face I would pretty much be able to figure out the answer. Don't be angry at him. He probably just smelled a rejection and is sorry that he told you.

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DN Grand Master

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If someone would not give a response until meeting up face-to-face I would pretty much be able to figure out the answer. Don't be angry at him. He probably just smelled a rejection and is sorry that he told you.
That occurred to me too. I would not dismiss this suggestion because it may have some merit.
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DN Grand Master

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I think it would be a lot more sincere if he asks me in person. It will be my first relationship... so i want to make it memorable.

Did you tell him that? Because another way of perceiving that might be that you are playing games. Or, upon reflection, that you are a little needy.

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ghost69 Mentor

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I think it would be a lot more sincere if he asks me in person. It will be my first relationship... so i want to make it memorable.

 

just call him up and start a conversation. if he brings it up and you don't feel comfortable over the phone, tell him you would like to see him. it's not as hard as you are making this out to be.

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Yeah i'm pretty sure he knows that. He even said "I know asking a girl on msn isn't the best way.... but i guess i had to get it off my chest"

 

Now knowing he knows all of that makes me that much more confused.

 

Maybe he was too embarrassed to ask you in person. Also it probably took quite a bit of courage to even ask you at all, the fact that he did ask probably means that he was expecting you to say yes, and you didn't so I can understand if he may be a bit hurt and that's probably why he didn't call.

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alli Collaborator

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I would say he just couldn't wait to tell you. Calling him will not make you look desperate. NOT calling him will make you look either uninterested or, if you opt to only send a text message, cowardly for not even being able to communicate directly with him.

 

It is possible he thinks you want to talk to him in person in order to let him down. That's probably what I would think.

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