I think my girlfriend has bipolar and hits me, what do I do?

[jamesonfire]

Well everything is kind of back to normal now it seems, she still hates me...but in the way that she actually still loves me but just doesn't want to say it! I may give it another go, if it happens again then I'll leave. When she tells me to get out of her house, I will just go instead of trying to make it better...but making it worse it seems!

[agent1607307371]

Well everything is kind of back to normal now it seems, she still hates me...but in the way that she actually still loves me but just doesn't want to say it! I may give it another go, if it happens again then I'll leave. When she tells me to get out of her house, I will just go instead of trying to make it better...but making it worse it seems!

 

If you know this is the outcome, why do it?

 

The cycle of normality and abuse is common to every abusive relationship. It's part of what keeps the put upon party coming back for more.

[agatha]

ok, if she's not up to treatment, and you can't stand up to her, leave.

 

you must not assume a wrong you didn't do, dear. if you want peace, make peace as a grown up. crying in front of her is exactly what she needs to keep abusing you, and to be put on track she needs someone to put a leash on her. saying you will go and staying will only make her confident that she can do just whatever.

 

let go, now.

[yeawutever]

Leave this toxic woman and run as fast as you can. It's clearly that she will not changed as she is an abuser. Those types of individuals never change. And that bipolar is an excuse for her behavior, it doesn't matter if she has bipolar or not, she's abusive and well there's jail for that.

[angellight]

honestly, i'd of beat her down. Some girl wants to throw down, it's on.

 

But definitely get out of this situation immediately.

 

ghost!!!!!

[JadedStar]

Yes, GET out.

 

Before one of you end up in jail or very hurt.

 

As has been stated YOU are not responsible for getting this woman help. She needs to do it on her own.

 

She is also verbally abusive and hoenstly does not sound like she deserves you at all. YOu sound like a patient, kind and loving b/f. Find someone who won't talk to you like dirt and put her hands on you in a violent manner.