How to not become attracted.

[Blockhead1013]

While I know looks aren't everything, I have a hard time convincing myself that. I don't know if it is something that is built into every guy, or even girl, to just be extremely attracted to any good looking figure that walks in the door at some point in their life, but the problem with it is that it makes me feel too accessible to almost everybody I meet.

 

I have some confidence issues, I've been working on them over the past year (I'm currently 17), but I still have a hard time letting go of what people think of me and just allowing people to have a negative opinion of me. I started to pursue girls over the past year, I didn't have much luck, but I did gain a lot of experience. One thing I have learned is that you need to not come off as desperate, which I feel like I am, because it is a turn off to have any time access to somebody to fall back on in case something doesn't work out. I'm not going to lie though, if any girl that was beautiful in my eyes walked into my room right now and told me she loved me I would probably tell her the same regardless of not having ANY clue who she was. My goal is to become a person that doesn't fall for any girl so easily. I don't want to feel or be desperate anymore.

 

I have friends who are able to just blow off just about any girl and worry more about themselves... and I want to be able to do this. How do I get myself out of feeling like this?

[COtuner]

You may be at the mercy of your hormones right now.

[Blockhead1013]

You may be at the mercy of your hormones right now.

 

Unfortunately, I'm guessing that is probably it too. ](*,)