cjt1986 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Im just ranting I dont expect ne 1 to care but I really cant see a point 2 living no more. Im a 23 y/o virgin who only had 1 gf in his life. Im handicapped and cant really do anything. I sit on the computer all day. I cant work cant drive. I have a friend who I would really like 2 be w/ shes nice 2 me at times shows interest i think im probably just being a hopeful fool. Said ok 2 a movie and maybe on a new years kiss. Just found out she has another bf as of new years. So I really dont even see much 2 live 4 no more. Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Im just ranting I dont expect ne 1 to care but I really cant see a point 2 living no more. Im a 23 y/o virgin who only had 1 gf in his life. Im handicapped and cant really do anything. I sit on the computer all day. I cant work cant drive. I have a friend who I would really like 2 be w/ shes nice 2 me at times shows interest i think im probably just being a hopeful fool. Said ok 2 a movie and maybe on a new years kiss. Just found out she has another bf as of new years. So I really dont even see much 2 live 4 no more. I care, and I just read your post. I think all of us could be called hopeful fools when we are in love. Yesterday, I found out that someone I liked wasn't interested in going out with me. I felt so sad, I really felt like things were hopeless. However, some kind people reminded me that one day, I will meet someone special. And, you will too. You're only 23 (your older than me, but still). You will meet so many other girls in your life. Don't stake your entire life and happiness on just one person. You have so much to offer, and you will meet someone who will love you so much one day. Just live for that. Live so that you can meet that person one day. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted January 4, 2009 Author Share Posted January 4, 2009 I really dont see it. I cant go out anywhere and idk if I ever will be able 2 do anything. I cant take care of myself now as it is. Link to comment
huskiesfan Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 I really dont see it. I cant go out anywhere and idk if I ever will be able 2 do anything. I cant take care of myself now as it is. Well, how did you meet this friend of yours now? And it shouldn't matter whether you can go out or not? That doesn't make a person who he is. I know how you feel, I've felt really sad after being rejected by someone I love as well. But, just remember that you will meet other people in your life. I don't know if you are religious or not, but I believe that God will steer all of us towards the one person in our lives that we are meant to be with. And how will you meet that person if you take your own life? I feel your pain, and if you need to talk about it, feel free to PM me or talk on AIM. Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 That sucks - getting dumped always hurts, but if it helps, it happens to all of us! You're not alone in that pain, it's so horrible and hard to get through. Have you got some clubs and things to go to, where you can socialise with people and hang out? Maybe that should be one of your challenges for January, to make a load of new friends - I think that would be a good one for a lot of us, to reach out and meet new people; and who knows what romantic interludes may develop! I'm sorry you feel bad, but things will get better, honest. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted January 4, 2009 Author Share Posted January 4, 2009 She never said "no I wont date you" she just got another bf be4 I could ask her out. I meet her at a local gun club. Ok guess I should give our story. Back in nov i was introduced 2 this one girl names amber. my dad had her show me how 2 play darts or try neway. well something snapped inside me n i ended up gettin feelings 4 her that night already. few weeks l8r my dad asked if she has bf she go "awww yea i do" n told me 2 come down more well fast forward now a few weeks the bf is gone so i asked 4 a movie date n she goes yea n we trade #s. then she invited me 2 come to a local gun club 4 new years so i went. half way through the night i told her that she looked very pretty n said bout this sun talkin bout movie if shed be there she said probably yea. then i went n asked bout 12 o clock kiss she goes "maybe well see" n is all smiley/ smirking 12 came around n she kept moving on me lol now come 2 find out theres a bf again Link to comment
LL1979 Posted January 4, 2009 Share Posted January 4, 2009 Just stay in the game man. Even if your chances were slim with this girl, killing yourself, to put it bluntly, reduces your chances to zero. Death'll come knocking one day anyway so why rush it. Your problems is you need to find inner strength. Don't hang all your happiness on a female's approval. Look around you on this forum - more questions than answers I think you'll find. There's plenty of literature out there. I suggest you shop around for a couple of self-help books that might give you a bit more insight than an online forum full of people more concerned with getting an opinion on their own problems. You can master your own situation and accept life can be s**t and is totally unfair - but still be happy in yourself. It is possible. remember, your first job in life is to look after #1 because nobody else will. We all have our own issues, even this girl you like has her own problems to deal with. You have to master yours. All the best. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted January 4, 2009 Author Share Posted January 4, 2009 I broke my neck in 2007 I SHOULD BE DEAD. Link to comment
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